I'm currently away at college right now although i'll be seeing my girl very soon... she has a couple close guy friends that she hangs out with...she's been hanging out with them before we were dating.... while she's honest about telling me that she's going to hang out with them and that she loves me... and as soon as she gets done hanging out she sends me a little email telling me she's home and she loves me... I still worry.... am i worrying for nothing?
2007-02-16 22:02:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I can say is that if you trust her trust that she is telling the truth, I mean its no crime to have friends of the opposite sex. There are people out there who would tell you she being unfaithful, but i mean how many people who cheat say im going out with this guy tonight, i mean it insites suspicion and thus not a good move if you being unfaithful, if you love each other just trust her
2007-02-16 22:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is possible to be 'friends' with the opposite sex. The only thing is i dont kno her, i only kno the situation (not first hand either) From what you're telling me, if she is really a genuine person...a person who loves someone will do anything for the person they love. And doing something with another guy, is hurting you so, I would say she wouldn't do that to you.
But i am just an outsider looking in.....
you say she's honest, so trust her. Just let her kno that you feel uncomfortable with her being around other males like that, and that love will make you do crazy things, and maybe she'll understand
2007-02-16 22:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably faithful but she shouldn't be doing that.She's putting herself in a situation where something could happen.Sounds like she's trying to get some kind of need met, woman deep down inside have a need to feel beautiful.I don't know what her problem is but she should be forsaken all others.
2007-02-16 22:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kay H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you gotten the chance to meet her guy friends? Is she open to you meeting them? If you have been around them, were you comfortable? Is so, don't worry about their friendship, if not, I would express how I feel to her.
2007-02-16 22:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by doll70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely you should be worried, you have probably been infiltrated already. she could be e-mailing you from anywhere man! How many girls have you met that you said l really want to be her Platonic friend?
2007-02-16 22:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably! she has guy friends in the same way that you probably have girl friends. Dont start worrying until you have evidence that she has been unfaithfull!
2007-02-16 22:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by caramel_blue_etc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are..
she's honest with you..
i think u sud trust her..
2007-02-16 22:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋