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hi this is just a simple question...i want a guy to like me...how?

2007-02-16 21:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

The best way to get a guy is to constantly work on improving yourself and being the best you can be. Simple as that.
It isn't about "your smile" or any other such nonsense.
Guys are pretty simple to attract. The big key isn't the clothes you wear or any of that stuff. That stuff is all BONUS stuff to guys. That is like whipped cream on the cake. The big thing is to work on looking good and taking care of yourself emotionally, mentally, physically, and intellectually. Learn as much as you can (read and exercise your intelligence) and be as good of a person as you can be. Any guy worth his salt wants a woman that is worthy of his attention (just like women feel the same way). Guys want a challenge just like you girls do. That push and pull...that tension is called chemistry. It is present when two people discover each other's personal worth and pursue each other (whilst being pursued). . For people to want to start such a courtship ritual (which could metaphorically be compared to a dance) you have to bring YOUR A-game by focussing on YOU. The secret ingredient is not doing it to attract a man or for any other ulterior motive. Make yourself the best you can be FOR yourself. If you do that, you will be able to handle being on your own and able to stand on your own two feet. Then you won't need a man to complete you...but to complement your life like a nice addition. That is best anyway because otherwise you are a short hop away from being desparate or codependent and that is TOTALLY unsexy.

2007-02-16 21:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Evan 3 · 0 0

Context is everything.

The correct answer might be anything from "Smile" to "Be yourself" to "Change your rude habits" to "Get interested in what he cares about" to "Tell him you fantasize about getting on your knees and giving him great oral sex."

Given that you asked the question the way you did, I'm guessing you're WAY too young for the oral sex option, but I'm including that for shock value to illustrate how many different kinds of answers there could be in different situations.

2007-02-16 21:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0 0

Just be yourself. If he does not like you for that, make him think you do not want him. Then he will definitely like you because guys like what they can not get.

2007-02-16 22:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by a43cha 2 · 0 0

tell him you are a low maintenance women and you will pull your weight in this relationship as you are no Paris Hilton or Brittnay Spears..you are not white trash...you are the women who will always be there for him...but the feelings should be mutal..

2007-02-16 21:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

pretend like you don't want him and he'll want you,guys like girls they can't get

2007-02-16 21:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by brentons9mm 2 · 0 1

if he dont you cant.

2007-02-16 21:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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