why is it that i feel better when im around fat ppl?

Question

so basically, i weigh 97 lbs and i hate food. but hate being around ppl that weigh less than 300 lbs can anyone think of an explanation explaniing why i feel this way? also, im looking for a man that has to weigh atleast 300 lbs to go out with.

Answer 1

it could possibly be that laughing makes you happy......

Answer 2

I would say it's fairly obvious that you some kind of eating disorder. Unless you're a pre-teen, there's virtually no way 97 lbs is an appropriate weight for you. I am by no means a trained physician, which I think is what you need most, but here are a few basic observations:

First, when you say you hate food, I doubt that. What is probably closer to the truth is that you fear food, mainly what it can do to your body. Those with eating disorders are rarely truly interested in getting thin. If they were, they would stop once they achieved a slender form, but they keep going past the norm even though it harms their body. This is because it's not thinness they want, it's control. What you truly fear, more than food, is not being able to control your eating as well as the effects the food has on your body.

Most people with eating disorders also have body dismorphic disorder. They cannot see how truly thin they are. When they look at their body is seems fat and out of shape. Sometimes, surrounding oneself with the morbidly obese can temporarily turn off that malfunction. When looking at yourself in comparison, no amount of perceptual distortion can hide the fact that you are smaller.

I think you should talk to someone trained in eating disorders. You really deserve to feel good about yourself in any surroundings.

Answer 3

I wouldn't have the foggiest notion why you would do that.

Whether a person weighs 100 or 300 pounds, we all share similar fears, feelings and emotions.

We cry when we are hurting whether emotionally or physically.

We feel love - we enjoy the company of friends and family - and we sometimes bottle our emotions up inside.

Maybe your desire to find a large person to go out with means that you feel safe with person of a certain size.

I'm more curious as to why you would hate food. There's nothing wrong with a healthy diet of the right foods.

I hope that you learn to enjoy a healthy diet and exercise plan and share that with your partner for the rest of your life - then you can both be happy - whatever your size.

Answer 4

My guess is that you hate food because you fear getting fat yourself and would hate being fat. To be around ppl who are larger makes you appear and feel even smaller or less fat.

Answer 5

well i think its good really that a 300lb man can get a girl ;) but maybe it could be bad and linked to a problem of u obsessing over your own weight

Answer 6

Because they make you feel thin, although you are already too thin, but you can't see it. You need to get some help, don't you.

Take care : )

Answer 7

You don't say how tall you are... maybe you're too thin for your height?... Maybe you crave to be tiny... and bigger people make you feel smaller....

Answer 8

Maybe its becoming a fettish.