I am 35, the eldest among 4(2 sis.,married andbro.studying abroad).My mother was diagonised with arare and aggressive cancer last month. Docs. have given her very litle time to live.Since then we are all shocked & shattered and having a tough time.As Iam the eldest, I am told to be brave and not cry so that I can take care of my sis.and bro.I am finding it very hard to hold my tears in front of my parents, sis. and bro.This situation mixed with a feeling of helplessnes towards my mom,and the pityness which people are showing is making me irritable and dipressed.I have a family with 2 kids,and they become the target of my irritation.How do cope with this situation.Right now I am very scared and tensed with my mom's issue.We are finding it difficult to control our dad, who cries like a kid.He wants my bro.(only son) to come back but he it will take him 2 yrs to come back.(He has own reasons)He will not be here when we need him the most.In all such situation what do I do? Please help
2007-02-16
21:02:59
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Amit J
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