first time sex.?

Question

Im a virgin but lately my bf been asking me a lot bout sex. Im so darn nervous. plus, some of my friends said that it hurts when the first tym, but others didnt say so and why is that? pls give me some advice about first-tym sex. and if u dun mind, pls also share ur first-tym sex expirience. thx...

Answer 1

I know sex seams to be everywhere to day, but try to save yourself. Having sex should be very spacial. Be careful because if you give in, he might think your just easy, and once he get what he wants, he'll be gone. Don't be a trophy for him to brag about. And yes it might hurt the first time, specially if he is large.

Answer 2

it depends on thickness of the virginal membrane, on the level of skills and patience of ur bf and on ur relaxation and both physical and mental readiness. usually it does not hurt so much. e.g. i did not even mention, it was like something inside me streched, like if u stretch any muscle in ur body. but then when the d*ck got insode it hurted a bit, because virgin vagina is tight, but he was moving slowly, letting me to get used. after all i'd say that even when i cut finger in the kitchen, it hurts more.
of course i did not c*m for the first time, in fact forst three times, then it was laways more or less ok.

what i can advice, first of all, u shpuld want it really, not doing favour to ur bf, u shuld take decision and what os more u should want it physically, feel sexual lust. ur bf should take care of preparing u and calming down. i think he'd know. and what is extremely important - lubrication, appropriate lubrication.
but what the hell i'm saying? the most important thing is love and concern about each other.

don't be scared. good luck. everythong will be ok.
cheers

Answer 3

It really does differ for every single woman. Sex has always been enjoyable for me. My first time was slightly guilt ridden though, so make sure YOU are comfortable going all the way.

It should be alright especially if you take it slow. My first time we eased into it and it felt really nice. Foreplay can assist to. If he fingers you, it may help ease the transition. Relax! Tight muscles will be a downfall.

Again, only do this on your own terms. Don't give away your virginity unless you are absolutely sure about it.

Answer 4

Make sure you have lots of lubrication, have him use his fingers first. Probably won't hurt if you take it slow, but don't expect first time to be any good, either. Usually that takes a few times.

Answer 5

My only advise to you my dear is to wait until your married. You will want to give your husband something so special and intimate to him, and If he's the one you will marry....then wait until you are married. Don't just give it away because of curiosity or pressure, Don't let your virginity become something less than a precious gift of love to your husband.

Pray to the LORD about it.

Answer 6

here is what to do . agree not to have intercourse . then agree to have only oral. and do that . when you feel like more you will be comfortable and this is the key to enjoying it. the first time is ok if your not all up tight . so do what i say this will calm your nerves and his and allow you both to take your time .

Answer 7

for girls it hurts the first time.... but u should ask ur bf to go slowly and don't forget protection!!! when i first had sex with my gf i went on slowly.... it hurt her but not that much, in fact she got more pleasure...
dn't forget to ask ur bf to finger u before using his penis

Answer 8

ya first timwe hurts but if he uses some precaution than it will be easy.

Answer 9

they said it bleeds..