am i leading them on?

Question

well there's this guy that says he luvs me, but i dont really like him like that. i like him, just not like that. and at the same time, there's this other guy that asked me out and im like "yeah" and i dont really like him like dat. i just thinks he's really cute. he gave me his number and i neva called him...nothing. he asked me to be his valentine and i said yeah. and its the same with other guys. but there's this guy that im talking to and i really like him. im totally crushing on him. i told my friends about him and they say that im leading on the other guys i dont really like. im not tryna lead them on. i just dont like turning down guys...and because of that, im in some real deep stuff cuz the two guys i dont like said they are coming to my dance practice on mondays and tuesdays. i hope they dont happen to meet up at the same time. imma look like a complete slut. but im still a virgin gosh darnit. i dont wanna lose them both as friends cuz they're soooooo nice. what do i do?

Answer 1

You got a serious problem. Tell them the absolute truth about your dislikes rather than worrying that you'd turn them down. Most important of all, do not play with a man's feelings.