Should I decide what to do in the first date or should I tell her what she feels like doing?

Answer 1

make some decisions about something you would like to do, then tell her what you have planned and "ask" her if she would like to do that as well. Don't just make plans without asking her first, she may hate it.

Answer 2

A woman likes a man to be confident and in control.

You initiated the date. You chose the woman to attend an event with you.

You can take the easy way out and go to the movies and stare at a moving wall in silence together.

You can go bowling or to a carnival where you can have fun, joke around, make mistakes and embarass each other. You will find out more about a person depending on the type of activity you select.

Choose well.

Answer 3

First dates are always a nerve wracking thing to go through. You should have an idea of what kind of girl you want to go out with--and what things you hope she will like to do,-similair interests in art, games, hobbies, outdoor sports and activities. How can you date on looks alone??? It won't last very long if you base it all on exterior stuff. Get a clue first--then have an idea of nice places to eat---make a decision and have fun. You can ask but if you are not a decision maker, she won't think much of you as a man. Time will tell you more about her. Keep her interested and learn all you can about her. Learn to be a good listener as well as a talker. If you aren't interesting--she will dump you...quick. Do yourself a favor, check yourself--are you neat and clean, hair, teeth and breath???proper attire, manners-----hey, you want a nice girl, right?? Good luck

Answer 4

what you do on a date should be according to mutual agreement. However, you would do well to make one or two suggestions.

How much you are willing to spend on a date, and how you will get there, will largely determine what you do. If you invite a girl to the movies, you could offer her a choice of two or three. The same thing holds if you go to a restaurant.

If you let the girl make all the suggestions, you will come across as wishy-washy and weak; that will lead no where. However, don't be afraid to let her take the initiative on later dates if she wants to. In fact, in a healthy relationship, both partners should invite and make suggestions.

Answer 5

Umm well depends on the situation.I mean if you know what shes into you should jusst decide or give her a heads up. Talk about it on the phone or else just pull off a classic move a do a "Movie and Dinner".Never gets old. And if a chick does think thats old and unattractive than shes been around quite alot.Im being totally serious.Cmon,who wouldnt like dinner and a movie?Thats like a bulletproof plan!

Answer 6

Well, no dont tell a woman what she feels like doing. That wont go over well. If you dont know what to do on a first date ask some friends to make some suggestions.
Or maybe you can think of a few options and run it by her and see if she shows any interest in any of the ideas.
Theres things to do.Movies, Bowling, Paintball, pool. kareoke, go to miniture golf, comedy clubs, dancing, dinner,

Answer 7

oooooooh so glad you asked--- you decide! NEVER ask a woman out on a date & expect her to come up with plans on the spot.

Seriously, there's nothing worse than hearing "So, what do you want to do?" -- plan ahead boys, plan! You'll have more fun & look like you put a little thought into the date as well. have fun :)

Answer 8

if the date is days before the actual date, ask her what she likes doing and surprise her with that kinda stuff. or just stick to the last second plan, impressing her with the doubts of being a man

Answer 9

Listen or read very carefully. Ask her one time and one time only what she would like to do. If she comes back with an "I don't know" or an "I don't care" or "whatever you want", then you must step up and decide. Give a girl the option--always give us options, if we don't take advantage of them, then too bad! We lost our chance! Good Luck!

Answer 10

I would tell her that you have a plan but that you are open to a change if she doesn't agree with your agenda. Never go on a date without thinking ahead.