okay so my ex boyfriend still liked me and i liked him but we where at a party together and my friend liked him and made-out with him right in front of me and they kissed for like 5 min and i got mad at him..then later in i started flirting with him friend and we started kissing and i knew his friend longer then him and he asked me out and i said yes but i feel soo bad and i dont know what to do..cuz i like the guy alot buti feel really bad for my ex becuase he was about to cry..but the other guy makes me feel so much better..but i still dont know..please help
2007-02-16 19:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and i broke up with my ex because he was a jerk and was there when i need him te most and said it was okay for me to do something bad when he should of suport me and said no and help me stop (i used to cut my self)but then i stoped cuz of other people that cared
2007-02-16 19:51:07 · update #1
So your ex got a dose of his own medicine and started to cry like a baby! HA HA too bad for him! He's your "EX" for some reason....move on with the new guy... and don't look back.
2007-02-16 19:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by MC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already answered your own question when you said the other guy makes you feel so much better. If this is true than stay with him. You should always follow your heart. If you are like all the girls I know than your ex almost about to cry is not very attractive at all, you want a boyfriend not a girlfriend dont you. You should never date someone out of simpathy or pitty, this gives the wrong impression to the guy and he might never understand how to deal with girls properly later on because of it.
2007-02-16 19:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Aenima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u're still havin feeling 4 him and that the act u did 2 him was out of spite if that was your girl why wud she do that to u ..... that's not right as far as the other guy it may have started out to be jus a revenge thing but who knows it may have been fate an it may work out but don't jus be mad at him u also have to be mad at your so called girlfriend after all if she made out with him she's jus as guilty an it should've hurt u that she wud do that 2 u
2007-02-16 19:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Derrick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left your ex- for a reason. Don't try to go back to him--it's bound for failure, as demonstrated by both of you getting into positions that would hurt each other.
Sex and romance should not be used as a weapon. Try to go out and have a good time, but don't feel like you have to have sex on every date. Friendship will prove to be more important in the long run.
2007-02-16 19:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your friend and your ex both wanted to hurt you, if you're more interested in the other guy that asked you out, go for it. Don't feel bad cus he was the one messing with you first to get a reaction out of you, we all do the same thing. Someone pushes our buttons, we push back. But u pushed back and realized you like what u pushed back onto. So go for it and don't feel guilty.
2007-02-16 19:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Foxy20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel bad for his dumb **** ***. he knew what was going to happen at a party and he's gonna cry about seeing you with another guy? just makes him think he lost something that he won't get back. forget him.
2007-02-16 19:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ahmad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the flavor of the week. The other guy will get over it.
2007-02-16 19:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sould stop being a heartbreaker... so sadd you're hurting his heart.
2007-02-16 19:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what makes u feel the best
2007-02-16 19:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by sam w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen what your heart say's just leave what your friends says
2007-02-16 19:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by shefalisharma_1992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋