or the right gesture to patch things up or to get us to start talking about us. She's not into that sort of stuff. I'm so distraught about it. Thanks.
2007-02-16 19:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
aww hun I'm sorry things haven't worked out with you two. In order to tap into what she's feeling and to make her let you in, you need to know how to approach her, what her needs are. Because if you respond to her with just your needs and how you "think" she wants, then she won't be responsive. Find out what shes longing for what egets her to open up. I guess you can try several approaches like trial and error, or jsut ask her or her good friend to see.
2007-02-16 21:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by coatedwithroses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes conversation can be hard. Be honest with her about how her abscence of words is concerning to you and how much you want to help her ease her pain. Allow her to be completely thorough in her description of anxiety or troubles and try to alleviate any responsibility she may feel. Perhaps it's nothing to do with her actions but her interaction with anyone involved may cause her to feel a bit of responsibility. Commend her on feeling the need to share and try to give her positive feedback and assure that being just the shoulder can be the difference. The friend with a caring shoulder yet silent voice could be the one thing needed. She knows you love her. Tell her plainly (I love you, I'll listen if you need me) and that just may be enough.
2007-02-16 21:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...i know how to answer this one ...
-1 if u only have 1 sister tell her : you know you can have as much as people to talk to you but only one sister to trust
-2 if she isnt talking to you because she is jelous let her get someone notice her for once and try to let her be the good sis for a short while
-3 be nice even though she isnt nice to you
-4 dont go into her private life she needs some privacy
-5 and finally go hug her so tight and start telling her that u want ure beloved sister back and that you made a big mistake and never meant to , dont be shy to do it even if you didnt make the mistake ...
p.s: if she doesnt forgive you just say ull only have one of me and go ...
2007-02-16 22:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by smileyandshiney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she will not talk to you. If you know the prob then you can go from there and fix things. Maybe right her a letter or email if you guys dont want to get all mushy
2007-02-16 19:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably give her a room to cool down,
then you can try to talk send her a letter
and to make sure she's got it, just drop it
to her letter box. or register your mail
for assurance.
Be nice to your letter thou
2007-02-16 19:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple words work wonders: " I am sorry " Say it like you mean it.
2007-02-16 19:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋