when i read the questions i find people asking should we have sex...if he touches me or .........
this is always an issue
dont u think it just comes if two people r in love?
2007-02-16 18:54:40 · 12 answers · asked by bottos b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not always... some people wait until marriage (and they aren't virgins "because they can't get any") because of moral or religious beliefs. Some people are afraid of pregnancy or disease. I've loved people before but haven't regretted not having sex with them. In fact, in many cases I've been glad I didn't because of a messy breakup.
Not everyone's ready to have sex at the same time... for those who are, it just tends to happen. Some people think it's ok to go all the way on a first date, some have a 3/5 date rule, others wait until they feel comfortable and a few wait until marriage/engagement. There's nothing wrong with these, per se, but I've known a lot of women who will sleep with a guy early-on and the guy will lose interest because what could have been a potential relationship turns into a one-night stand because there's no chase or effort and, thus, no way to get a guy "hooked".
2007-02-16 19:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I know this is an issue for a lot of girls because unfortunately most girls go after their hreart, but men don't think that way. They are looking for physical pleasures before other things. So lot of times girls give into having sex thinking there's more to it where the guy is just looking to have a temporary good time and move on... this is where it becomes tricky if you don't want to end up getting hurt... now when it is a mutual understanding about sex, then there's no issue. There are women that have sex just to have a good time as well. But for those girls that are looking for something deeper, then sex becomes a question mark.
2007-02-16 19:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a natural expression of love and caring and respect between two people...it is the ultimate act and is a giant step toward a committment in life. It is seldom done for the proper reasons and it oftens becomes a cheap act that lessens the original intent of it.Thus it becomes an issue if the two parties are not in agreement over love making---it happens to cause a lot of hard feelings when one or the other feels used instead of loved.
2007-02-16 19:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe someone finally asked what I've always been wondering. I was starting to worry that I was the only one who thought this way. : ) I think that if two people are truely in love then they should want each other.
2007-02-16 19:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not the worry, it is solution sometimes...if two person going to make a relationship ....sex don't break ..it work as a cement to bound their relation...but some people thought that (who don't have full trust) their relationship is going to break....its only a rubbish of their mind...sex is an important part of marital life, but mind it, it should should not effect your life...
2007-02-16 19:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by prem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you feel you really love the person then you should have sex with them... but people have theirs needs and when they want it, damnit they want it!!! lol ... but I mean, I don't know... if a guy touched me the right way and what not and I was with him then, sure why not have sex with him?
♥ Christina
2007-02-16 19:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are uncomfortable with their sexuality so sex is a problem that results in worry
2007-02-16 18:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he talks too lots approximately it den specific he purely wnts intercourse now dis depoends on ur age and how long uve been relationship yet basically tell him right away up that u dnt sense confy approximately all his pee-pee communicate all da time and if he DOES comprehend u hell stop if he doesnt care hell shop doing it den ull basically might desire to do what u might desire to do it incredibly is end it im sorry I might desire to declare this yet whilst he doesnt comprehend u enuff to stop talkin bout sumthing that mekes u uncomfy den he wnt comprehend u enuff to attend and that i dnt think of u choose for to dat him 4 a pair of months and den discover out hes been cheatin on u with yet another woman who will positioned out..... one element DONT have intercourse with him to maintain him or close him up the two that's no longer the respond
2016-10-02 06:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty inevitable, for sure. Blame hormones.
2007-02-16 18:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think their confuse between love and lust.
2007-02-16 19:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rain L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋