does he really want me?..this time?

Question

so my boyfriend cheated on me, but i have given him another chance. But as usual it is hard for me to get over the fact that he cheated. So when i feel like i can't take it anymore i tell him its over, and within the next 5 minutes he is at my door telling me to "please dont do this", and " i love you so much" etc etc.Within the last 4 weeks hes like "move in with me" "marry me" , and i admitt i am being a total B**ch to him, i try not to, but sometimes to cant help it.But he puts up with it, and does anything and everything i want.and tells me everyday he wont cheat, and that he only wants me, and is totally devoted to me now. Does this mean he really wants me? and is going to try really hard to be and stay with me?

Answer 1

I hate hearing this...I've been through it Trust me you may need some time away from him to figure out what you want. You can't kick him out and then five minutes later let him back in. You need time to figure out what's more important. Your health is more important, your well-being is more important. Its hard letting someone that you love go, but some men (immature men) take you for granted. He knows you'll keep letting him back in so he is going to keep doing the samething once you start back trusting him again. Some relationships need a break inorder to repair things. But when a man is just plain out selfish and don't respect you, let him go. You are better than that, and worth more than that. You don't need no man bringing you all kind of stds in yo house. For right now he is going to do everything to make you happy and then when you let your guard down he will be at it again. But I could be wrong, the only way you'll know is if you see major changes and if he's making an effort everyday. And if he continues to make those efforts. If not kick him to the curve. Listen to Mary J Blige

Not Today

Enough Cryin

Girl said it best.....

Read this

Artist: Mary J. Blige
Album: Love & Life
Year: 2003
Title: Not Today Print
Correct


Not Today ringtone on your mobile phone

(feat. Eve)

This is another one of those heartbreak hotel joints for the ladies

Why won't u grow up & be a man someday
I can't believe that you're still playing silly games
Now why do I put up w/ all this child's play
Now if your word is all you have
Then u ain't worth a damn thing

[Chorus:]
Promises you told me every day
That you made you never ever kept
By me I really want to believe
But not today, not today, not today, not today

You're the worst
I can't even depend on u
U say a lot of good things
But something else u always do
Be a man of your word
Try to love something other than u
But now u can be on your way
Cause I don't want you to stay

[Eve:]
Promises bout our house
Bout the kids
Lifestyle we would live
Who the f**k u really is
In my face
All the time
Spittin' line after line
Broke down my wall and u got in my mind
You's a fake shoulda known
All the signs I was wrong
Believed what I saw
And your cover was blown
Breakup, leave
Make up, please
You's a magician all them tricks up your sleeve
Had me for a minute
I was in it
U played good
But I'mma get u
I'mma make moves
And I'mma leave you where u at dog, chill
Go back to square one
Wait for something real
Selfish *****
Could have helped you *****
Usually know betta but I felt you *****
I guess getting in my head was a part of the plan
Cause in reality the only thing you giving me is

Promises you told me every day
That you made you never ever kept
By me I really want to believe
But not today, not today, not today, not today

Don't let him waste your time girl
He's only telling lies girl
And when he apologizes (and he will)
Don't be believing that man
Cause he gon' do it again

Promises you told me every day
That you made you never ever kept
By me I really want to believe
But not today, not today, not today, not today

DON'T FALL FOR THAT "MARRY ME" STUFF THATS JUST AWAY FOR HIM TO HOLD ON TO YOU AND STILL CHEAT. THAT WAY HE CAN HAVE BOTH WORLDS. A WIFE AND MANY HOES HE WANT WHILE HE AINT AROUND YOU..DON'T FALL FOR IT.

Answer 2

I think he has realise his mistake. Since you said you want to give him another chance, go on and give him the chance. I think he really needs you and wants you to fogive him. Just try to forgive and forget. Just give him another chance and I hope you will not regret it. If he wants you to be his wife then it means he really loves you very much. Please don't break his heart. Go back to him

Answer 3

I think that this guy is (no offense) just kissing *ss so you will trust him again and then once everything is going peachy-keen he will probably cheat again. Once acheater always a cheater...Move on!