you are able to love another ????
2007-02-16 17:29:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to at least like yourself. You have to have a certain belief in your being loveable in order to really give and receive love. Otherwise you feel you aren't worth it, never believe the other person when they say it, and you drive them away.
2007-02-16 17:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've actually been thinking a lot about this lately.
On the one hand, I know its possible to care for another person more than you care for yourself.
On the other, if you don't love yourself, I would ask why do you value the other person? Why would the thought of them leaving bother you? If its because you're afraid of how you'd feel, loving them is stemming from loving yourself. Based on that I would say its not possible to love someone else if you don't love yourself.
2007-02-16 17:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by wonderer152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you have to love yourself before you love others. I don't love myself, but I love my family, my boyfriend & my bestfriend (he's a male). Too many people keep trying to tell me you can't love others if you don't love yourself.I think that is just a a bunch of bull****. I like myself only but love those that are important to me.
2007-02-16 17:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by MaeSalgo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i love my guitar as a lot as i love sex with my female. i'm no longer shy or prematurely with love. i'm a touch more beneficial sneaky with it yet no longer to the point the position it gained't get referred to. Libra solar Pisces Moon
2016-12-04 07:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to love someone who doesn't love themself.
I believe to have sucess in anything,ya gotta love yourself.
so yeah,love yourself first.
2007-02-16 17:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by noname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's 100% correct.
2007-02-16 17:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you love yourself,yes we are all able to love people.dont you love your parents?dont you love your friends?
2007-02-16 17:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes for it to be a mutually happy relationship you need to be a whole person, not someone who is just looking for someone to breath life into them.
2007-02-16 17:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...
2007-02-16 17:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but the relationship probably won't last long.
2007-02-16 17:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋