b/c i did that before. The second he wanted me back i jumped right back at him. i made it really easy for him and he didnt cherish it b/c it's easy. so this time i wanna take it slow, make him beg, big time. how should i do this?
He's posting online messages like "he's not happy", "he is drunk and missing the girl" etc.
We are each other's first love and i just make sure we wouldnt ruin it this time.
How can i make it hard to make him cherish what he has?
2007-02-16 17:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, i'm pretty sure i am the girl. both of us are pretty stubborn and dont wanna be like others who date dozens of people.
2007-02-16 17:36:24 · update #1
Trust me. Do nothing. Ignore him. If he calls, wait 2 days to call him back. When you call him back don't make an excuse about why you took so long to call him back just be casual like, "hey, how's it goin?" I did this with my current boyfriend and we are still together and happy almost 5 years later. I even make jokes and tell him about "how I landed him." @!
2007-02-16 17:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by harelinefracture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you two could just stay friends for a little while. Let him take you out on dates and stuff but dont go any further than just friends. That way you'll be temping him with something he really wants. He may even learn to cherish what you have to offer and he may even feel the need to prove his love for you in some way. Just a suggestion. Hope it helps in some way.
2007-02-17 01:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing games isn't a way to build a serious relationship. If this young man keeps ending your whatever you have, why would you let him come back like that? Maybe he's testing your weaknesses and you're biting. This kind of paring will not last for long. You're obviously young people and shouldn't be tied down anyway.
2007-02-17 01:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to understand what he had and make the change.. if he cant change then there is no hope.. give him a chance but dont play games... tell it like it is!
2007-02-17 01:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out..make yourself seem really busy and like youre doing just fine... when you talk to him.. act like you were just friends and nothing more.. dont be too harsh though.. do it until you think hes ready. you better make sure he wont give up on you.
2007-02-17 01:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by lolomgwtf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy...you broke up more then twice already??? Give me a chance...I'll help you forget him lol
2007-02-17 01:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by Curiously 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him if you have that bond it shouldn't be hard but definately play it hard he must realize that you are worth being with and if thats the case he will fight for what he wants!!!
2007-02-17 01:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by confused 24yr old 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat makes u think those online messages are for you....u'll be psyched out.
2007-02-17 01:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Funk-Ski Biznez Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋