Does it look desperate to date men online?

Answer 1

No....just be careful about giving personal info away before meeting the person in an open public place.

Answer 2

It's not desperate at all. It's just the 2007 way to do it. Why go to church, or a bar, or the mall and only have a few to choose from when you can search online and have 5 times that to choose from. Only dumb people who don't know how to use a computer refuse to look for someone online.

Answer 3

In this time in life that we are living with everything is fast past and there is no time for anything but work or sleep and a PC is either your form of work or on your lap before you hit the pillow. And your friends are out and about with their boyfriends or husbands and you know in your heart your a good attractive person but your definitely not going to go out on your own to a bar or club, on line dating is the next best thing there are alot of good men in the same situation your in, of course there is good and bad everywhere so be carefull follow your mind and heart. Good luck

Answer 4

Well it really depends on who you're telling. Are you dating them online or meeting them online and dating in person? Do what makes you happy. It's not like the online guy will think you're desperate, they're in the same situation! Tons of people find hapiness with people they meet online, I don't think society as a whole sees it as bad.

Answer 5

NO. I can understand if women don't have other options. If you have already search for a mate at your workplace, don't like the whole bar scene, dance club crap, I guess there isn't much out there to find a mate. I suggest for you to talk to your friends and see if they can fix you up with a co worker of theres first. Dating online can be a little dangerous.

Answer 6

well, i sure wish that i could find what used to be called "socials," or "dances" to meet a nice fella. it would be wonderful too if i were in a store and i smiled at a man without a gold band on his finger if he smiled back at me, then began to talk to me.

however, we are in the change of an era. it sure is strange to be at the onset of the global communication, computer, and space travel era, while at the same time, in the death of the industrial revolution!

it's hard to meet a nice man out in cyberspace. i am probably older than you are. i did not see a pc until about 1980. i'm glad i still know how to count out change from your ten dollar bill if your items cost $8.37.

what i see all the time is everyone walking around talking on their cells or else listening to music on their ipods. i do not see people striking up a conversation. it is lonely.

since i'm not religious, i'm not going to church just to meet a man. the church likes to have you do that because then you'd probably become one of their flock, which is okay, but i feel that if i met a man that way, without going there to worship, i'd be a hypocrite.

if you want to "meet" men in cyberspace, do what i do: NEVER let them start talking sex to you! they will just be using you. do not accept their invitation to show you their webcam, either, unless they tell you they are dressed and decent. don't fall for the garbage that they want to come to your house to get you for a date! you never know: he may be a rapist! if he's on the level, he will be happy to both give you his phone number (it will be a cell phone, but who cares?), talk to you on the phone, and then set up a date. if he is a gentleman, he will call the day before your date to ensure that it's still on. and if you are a lady, you will even re-verify it. if he is really a gent, for sure, he will BE AT the restaurant that you agreed to meet in! sometimes they are there, even, but if they don't like you because of what you look like (HOW SHALLOW), they do not come up to take you to a table. then you call their cell phone in the middle of the night, or very early in the morning, and tell them what a cad he is!!! jerk!!! but they do that. just know that.

go to the restaurant in your own car and leave in your own car. it's hard, i know, to meet your "click." good luck!

Answer 7

Not necessarily. You have to be careful but I do not think it is any worse than bars or such. Just chat with them for awhile. If it seems ok then perhaps meet them in a very public place. Lots of people around. Do not go anywhere with them. Try this several times until you are surer but still be careful.

Answer 8

Don't let the haters hate you. I met my husband through online dating! Married 2 1/2 years!

Answer 9

Yeah. Look at it this way, a woman can get a guy pretty much whenever she choses merely by opening her legs.

I'd be thinking what is wrong with this woman that she needs to meet guys online.

Answer 10

I don't think it is desperate. I meet my wife on-line. I found out that in normal life I was shy and socially awkward, but on-line I was able to let my hidden personality out. Women were able to talk to me and i was able to talk to them. I found love and been in love for the last nine years and have 2 wonderful children.