I have been having an affair for the last 5 years with someone that i really do care for but i don't know if i love them and vice versa. Now his life left him (nothing to do with me) and i am wondering if this were you would you try to pursue him on a deeper level now cause really all it's been is sex. Also i am with someone else that i don't love anymore.
2007-02-16 17:19:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep getting laid don't take no steps beyond sex
2007-02-16 17:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a really hard decision. Because you love someone doesn't mean you want to be with them permanently because you may not feel you are suited. Even though you are crazy about them, you may not feel you are good enough to be with them all the time. And I didn't like feeling jealous, so I never went steady with anyone really good looking because my fingernails weren't long enough, my hair wasn't blonde, etc., and so I always went with someone who made me feel comfortable instead. Good luck.
2007-02-17 01:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sunkist3599 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a good book you should read... it's called The Bible. He doesn't respect you, nor do you respect yourself for allowing this to happen.
2007-02-17 01:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by starry_eyed_peach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this relationship all he is using you for is just a booty call.... you deserve to love
2007-02-17 01:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nin-ja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR GET HIM AND GO WITH YOUR NEW FOUND LOVE. SEX IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR LOVE. REMEMBER IT IS BUT A FLEETING MOMENT IN TIME!!
2007-02-17 01:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u lead ur life alone?? ... Thats better...
The best person comes on ur way..
2007-02-17 01:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your morales in order.
2007-02-17 01:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not love.
2007-02-17 01:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't pursue it, I've been in it myself, don't ruin it
2007-02-17 01:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated with you, he will cheat on you
2007-02-17 01:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Flangina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋