He is also my son's father. He broke up with me cause I caught him cheating. I love him but I can not trust him. He tries to sleep with me and I turn him down. He does not even help me with our son. I still have hope for him. I still love him but he is a liar and misused my love and trust. What should I do? I want him out of my life but we have a child together. Help please,
2007-02-16 17:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by Deejay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not love him, you simply miss the familiarity. You love the idea of him not doing the things that hurt you. You love the idea that because he is the father of your child, there is an unbreakable bond. You love that you don't mind his bad habits and do not want to learn about someone else. You are fearful because you know of his hurt and are afraid someone else may do worse.
What you need is to love yourself, let the past be the past and move forward. He will always be a part of your life, but he does not have to be the part that may hurt you again.
2007-02-16 17:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by scottmeck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheats, lies, is a user, can't be trusted, and doesn't help with his son. WHAT IS YOUR ATTRACTION TO HIM???? Lose him! He cheats then HE breaks up with you??? You really need to take off the rose colored glasses and see this guy for the creep that he is. Both you and your son deserve better! If you want him out of your life, then make up your mind that the ONLY contact you will have with him will be concerning the child. Start dating, seeing friends, spending time with family, working, studying...you will be too busy to worry about him
2007-02-17 01:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love the person inspite his weaknesses and faults then try to talk to him about that, i think your confused if you want him out of your life or not, better decide first if you still love him and wants him in your life. there will always be a tie in your relationship you have a son with him so you cannot just throw him out of your life.
2007-02-17 01:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it normal to have feeling for him he the father of your child ,and he
will all way be in your life,but you know that if does not respect
you then it will be like that regardless of how you feel. it all
about respect and your deserve that, so i would think about
the fact that you are worth more then someone that does
this to you. time to move on, and find someone that will
treat you the way you need to be treated.
2007-02-17 01:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an idiot ok he cheated on you he's scum. ok get over it and find someone new. he's a prick stop being a baby find a real man for the sake of your child he needs a real father
2007-02-17 01:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by space cowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS JUDGE MAYBELLINE WOULD SAY "LOOK DEEP BEFORE YOU LEAP". IF IT DIDN'T WORK THE FIRST TIME YOU CAN ALMOST BE CERTAIN IT WON'T WORK NOW' GUYS WILL TELL YOU HOW SORRY THEY ARE AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND TELL YOU IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN. DON'T BELIEVE IT, ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!!
2007-02-17 01:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋