Ok so in the thirid grade there was a new girl that evrey one was mean to because she was weird. I was the only one that was nice to her, so we became friends. Now I'm in the 7th grade,and she is home schooled. I'm am little embressed to be seen around her because I don't want to be labled as "weird" I'm not trying to be mean but evry time she asks to do somthing I have to make an excuse. I don't want to hert her felling because shes so kind to me. What should I do?
2007-02-16 17:12:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLEASE,be this girls friend.If she has no friends you should feel bad because you are probably her best friend.This was how I was labeled when I was the new girl in first & kindergarden.But now I have great friends, so please be like those true friends that were there for me when I needed them.
Put a smile:) on her face instead of a frown:(
And remember you can either have friends that will never treat people the way your friend treated you and you treated her, so do a good thing and please do what you think is right.Your making me cry. . . . . . . . . you also made michelle cry. . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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2007-02-16 17:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by 'PK Nelson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do, is be her friend. Actions you take now, can have serious and great ramifications in the future. Look at it this way, you have two choices, A. Be her friend and forget about those idiots that will lay judgment on you. You could have a friend for life, and totally change the way the other girl views the world, for the better. or B. Forget about the girl, keep ignoring her, make yourself look better to all those "other" people. The girl will be hurt, and one day, when you all grow up, she will still feel the pain you left her with.
Im not telling you what to do, its your life, but what do you think in your heart, the right decision is.
Hope this helps
2007-02-16 17:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by The Date Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people who label you are jerks who have nothing better to do than make other peoples' lives miserable!!! Don't listen to the jerks, and stay with the loyal friend.. I know what you mean. I have a friend who is labeled as "Wierd", too. I just get over what other people say, and hang out with her. I am also labeled as cool, i guess and I think my rep might be losing a little... but that doesn't matter. I realized that the more people love to be around you, the more popular you get!!! So, forget about the so called "populars" who label others, and start your own popularity. The type that includes everyone!!! You'll be surprised at your results!!!!!!
2007-02-16 17:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people think and how they "label" you. The important thing is this girl is nice to you as you were to her. Chances are very good that she will be a life-long friend to you when others have moved on. Once other people see you with this girl and being such close friends with her...they may stop with the childish attitudes and reach out to her as well. To hurt this girl and lose her friendship will hurt you much more in the long run
2007-02-16 17:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for your friend. She may be the best one you ever had or will ever have. Im much older than you are but in the same grade i was nice to a nerd in school and my friends laughed at me for it. I just told them they shouldnt be so mean to him because one day he just might be there boss. hahaha I didnt hear anymore laughing after that and he got a few new friends. If you care enough about her, you wouldnt let people that laugh at you bother you. You just have to go with it and dont start any fights just be yourself. Show you are comfortable having her as a friend around other people. Confidence will win over. Home schooling is becoming very popular with all the crazy stuff going on at schools. Guns, fights, bad teachers, not enough school funding...... It's sad but its true. Keep your head up and dont show any weakness such as embarrasment when your hangin out with her.
2007-02-16 17:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kendra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This advice is coming from the queen of high schools:
Talk to everyone and be nice to everyone. Don't fall head strong into a clique of girls/boys because everyone is not going to like you all of the time. The people that DO treat you with respect and dignity are the ones you should highly favor, that doesn't mean you have to go shopping with them everyday but treat them well, buy them Christmas gifts and stuff.
If you spend your entire day with many different groups of people, no one will have anything bad to say about you and you will get to know more people....
Trust me, I know
email me if you want to talk about this in further detail
2007-02-16 17:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so hard to be labeled as weird, but just think about how happy you'll be making this girl! Apparently she has no one else to be her friend, so one friend could mean the world to her! I haven't been homeschooled, but I think that could probably be one of the hardest things, to feel like an outsider like that. Maybe choose one of your best, kindest, and most trustworthy friends and introduce them. Do what you know is right and don't let what other people think about you get you down; what do they know anyway!
2007-02-16 17:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Bruschetta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she really thinks of you as a friend, and lieing to her to not hurt her feelings is the same as hurting her. How would she feel if she found out you lied to her to get out of being seen with her, she would feel even worse. She is a nice person does it really matter if she is "weird" or not, she is your friend and you should stick up for her.
2007-02-16 17:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by NekoTeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you really care for this girl who is all alone and feeling unloved, but you can change that by helping her cant you, talk to some of your friends and tell them, how would they feel if they were her. we all need a friend, even if its only 1. don't worry about what others think, if you want to be her friend, they please do, she is so alone, and if i was alone like that, i would well anyway the point is, just be her friend, and talk to your other friends about it, you may get them to understand where you comming from, its whats inside that counts,i always thought that a true friend is the better long life friend that is always their for you.
2007-02-16 17:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a true friend. Stand up. It's not about how many friends you have in life. It's about valuing your friends in your life. Sometimes, people are better with 2-3 true friends, then 100 "so called" friends that betray you in return behind your back. Be a true friend. Stand up. Say: "I'm her friend and that's all that matters. All you people that don't like her, don't have to like me neither because I care about her and I accept her unlike no one else will." Continued: "You all judge her. You need to learn to stop being immature and grow up."
Be a true friend. Stand up. **** all the other people!!!
Good luck!
Michelle
2007-02-16 17:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋