Let's say there are these two brothers and there is one you really like, only to find they're both interested in you. I mean, what if they start fighting with each other? Should I just back off and crush my feelings? I've heard they're really competitive over everything, I feel like no matter what I do it will be the wrong thing to do.
What would you guys do in this situation?
2007-02-16 17:04:46 · 13 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would continue to like the one I was attracted to. But only him. If they fight it's their problem. Just don't play one against the other or you will eventually lose.
2007-02-16 17:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theyre brothers..so, either way its going to cause conflict if they both like you and its going to put a strain on their relationship and you should think about that. Thats a lot of responsibility for you to have on your shoulders. Just be friends with them and maybe eventually the one you dont really like that will lose interest in you and yeah..you could have a chance with the one you like! Give it some time.
2007-02-17 01:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A pink canvas has it right and the Air force guy is an idiot you are very beautiful. No matter what you do you will probably cause conflict. You need to choose whomever fits your idea of the best man. Maybe hook the other one up with a friend or talk to him ahead of time and tell him your choice and why.
2007-02-17 01:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Simon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually happened to me before, my brother and I have a very strong bond that no woman on this earth can interfere with. If they are mature enough and have a relationship as good as my brother and I do, then everything is going to be alright. Just follow your heart. The one that you arent interested in will just have to pick up the pieces and get on with life.
2007-02-17 01:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Matt from Ga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ether talk to them about how you fell or just forget about it. You don't want one of them getting hurt emotionally or physically you know.
If I where you and like them I would talk to them both together. It is better to talk to them then just let it go. I would tell them how I felt and what I wanted to happen.
Or you can always just stop flirting back with them and for get the hole thing ever happened and walk away for it. But if you really like one of them believe me it is easier said them done.
Hope I help you out.
Good luck!
Christy
2007-02-17 01:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them if they want to be with you they're going to have to share you equally. You're not going to chose one over the other so it's either a threesome or nothing.
Hey it's worth a shot... better than just giving up completely without taking a chance.
2007-02-17 01:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the brother you like, let it be a growing lesson for them both in life, compition is in sports grades not family happiness. the other brother will have to learn your feelings count and if he cares about you at all he will want you to be happy with you and your decission based on what you want, not his because you feel sorry for him or these two might fight all their life because they are to imature to get a clue, in competing you have a winner and a loser it's their game your choise
2007-02-17 01:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by bella767676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a talk w/ the both of them....be clear of who u like and let the other know. He will get over it...just b honest...and dont blame yourself.
2007-02-17 01:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day you will be sleeping with both of them sounds like a jerry springer show
2007-02-17 01:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once, follow your heart!
2007-02-17 01:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by DamnBiatchYouKnowYourStuff! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋