does sex REALLY feel that great?

Question

i dont undertsand why people make it such this HUGE ol' deal about it,im 14,virgin,and well i just want to know from somebody married and experienced with sex,how do it really feel? i heard it hurts the first time you do have sex,for girls it does,well please answer~!*

Answer 1

Yes!! Pookiepoo You Silly Girl!! It hurts the first time but I doubt you'll have that problem. Virgins bleed a bit, as much as when your period first starts. Not much. If you get that taken care of first (your bf or doctor) it will sure help! It hurts around 3 more times. If you are teasing around it won't be that Big of a Thing.

When you are with a man you love (someday) that happens to be the Very Best in Bed you Ever Had it can make tears stream down your face and confuse you both entirely! Get the picture? And no, you can't do That One alone! He's not necessarily the man you marry or even love the most later. That romance can go sour.

It's based on the obvious (physical) but it's also based on what emotions turn you on (mental) and emotions can fool you.
Well, there are no YA! cops to check you for a rating, so I'll just say goodnight! Hope the Big One happens for you one day! It's a Rare O out of many little o's. And He Will be Remembered for it! Oh Yes He Will. @8-)

Answer 2

As a fourteen year old girl, this question does not mean anything. Sex is bad when there is no commitment, love, understanding.
Sex hurts, not just physically, but most of all because you have let someone use you, for his own personal gratification. The bad part is that the boy will tell everyone how easy it was getting you in bed.
I have been married for 40 years. Yes, sex is good, those it hurt the first time. Maybe depends on you anatomy. Depends on you willingness to give your soul to someone that does not love you. If you have sex with the one you love, I do not mean someone who want to sex you up. But really love, nothing hurts, is a pleasure beyond comprehension.

Answer 3

A woman could answer this better for you, but trust me when I tell you to wait till you're older before you start trying. 18 is a good age IF you have someone special in mind.
But yes, the short answer is that sex feels good EVERY time for men (which is why we are idiots about it), and if a girl cares about a guy or just really wants him and he has some skill then it can feel much better for a woman that it does for a man. I've made women hit, scratch, purr, piss, yell, moan and cry with pleasure when they've gotten their orgasm, but I've never felt anything that powerful. The older the guy the more he'll know usually.
But stay a virgin for along time yet...there's no rush.

Answer 4

To answer your question, yes sometimes the first time can be pain full. When the wife and I got married our first time hurt both of us. The best thing to do is wait for that person you know will be around and can handle it when you are ready. If your fourteen you shouldn't even be worried about that stuff now. Concentrate on school and make a better life for yourself. It takes a very strong woman to abstain from sex. You are worth the wait. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Answer 5

Okay... your questions aren't that simple.

Yes, for some women, the first attempts at penetration in sexual intercourse can be painful. That can be somewhat lessened if you're very athletic, as vigorous activity can break a girl's hymen long before she's sexually active.

But with a caring partner and at a time when you are physically and emotionally ready, even that first sex act can be fun and enjoyable. However, I seriously don't recommend that sort of thing before you're of legal age. Not just for the sake of laws, but for the sake of your physical development. Your body still has growing to do, and your experiences will be better after you're an adult in body and in emotions. In addition, teenagers of both genders are going through growth spurts and awkward times -- that's not the time to explore sexuality, it's totally no fun at all if it's awkward. Get comfortable in your adult body first.

Relax, approach sexuality with an open mind and a bit of laughter, have fun and enjoy. When you're of legal age, sound and secure of mind and emotion, and have condoms and birth control at hand!

Answer 6

you know sex does feel great sure. there are other things that feel great too. for me and the people i have met men and women we all like to ride our horses around the country side. i know people who dont do this will think we are nuts but i have riden with some of the riches people in canada and some extremmely good looking women and we have all said that riding is as good or better then sex. it does feel at all the same but the joy of being out on a horse with nature not running from me is great. i have riden right up to rabbits and i rode within a foot of an eagle one time as it sat on a fence post. seen deer sniff noses with my horse and just had pure joy riding so you see sex is great but its not the be all and end all of pleasure. your 14 i can promise you that sex will after a few times feel good but i know that at 14 you will have emontions and fears regarding it even after you have done it many times. something like riding a horse or swimming is much better for you . trust me at 14 you can have a crush that will seem like there can be no other ever and just holding hands will put you on cloud nine but add sex to that and it will seem like your in a black cloud. so wait and do all sorts of other stuff join a team and try to score the winning goal in a big game as the crowd cheers you on. climb a tree so high and see all around and feel the air and the thrill of being up there. a person can if they want find joy and peace doing many things that will never be forgotten and none of them will come with guilt or the worries of having sex at 14. good luck have fun live now and love being a kid we all wish we could be kids again . so take advantage of it now .

Answer 7

Sex is a presious gift! It is not something a 14 year old should be thinking about now! You'll have pleanty of years to find out for yourself, when your older. But I will anwser you! at the age of 14, 15, 16 & even 17 it hurts like hell! Your body is not ready for it and youll be in pain for years!!!!!!! So hold on for a few more years! okay! Until your old enough to handle the pain!!Because It hurts like hell!!!!!!!!!!!! when your this young!!

Answer 8

im not married... but im answering anyway... it hurts for the first like 5 times in the beginning each time but then your area gets used to it & it will begin to feel good. i havent had one of those AMAZING orgasms yet but i get off : ] ppl dont need to make a huge deal out of it though. its a dumb thing to brag about. only do it when you love the person. ive been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years & we waited a year & a half before we had sex. its special for me bcuz im with the one i love : ]

Answer 9

I'm sure being 14 you feel like your mature and older but you honestly shouldn't worry about sex right now. You will learn all about that in due time just enjoy being young. One night and one mistake is all it takes to lead you down mommy road.

Answer 10

If you are 14, you really need to wait. But, to answer your questions yes with the right person sex is great. You are too young though,enjoy your childhood. BE A 14 YEAROLD KID!!!!