Should I trust him when he says he's staying the night at his aunts but leaves no number for me to call?

Question

i have trust issues to begin with and it's so wierd to have a b/f that stays the night places. I don't know whether it's the truth or not. He doesn't leave a phone number and he gets all pissy if I ask anything about his whereabouts. I'm not sure if i should believe him or not. We're in a long distance relationship so that in itself is tough. I just wonder if he tells me he's staying the night somewhere to be with someone else and when he comes sees me he's telling that someone he's staying with a family member. I'm confused and I really don't know what to do. :(

Answer 1

I have had a long distance relationship, where my boyfriend did cheat on me and it hurts. I dont know your boyfriend but in general i do have to say .. men are pigs. I say this because, they could love you with all there heart, truly but still cheat on you because to them its just sex and they feel like they need it i guess. Tell him that is he is at his aunts to give you the number so you can talk with him, if he refuses then he has something to hide. Let him know that you wont accept anyone cheating on you. Tell him to be honest, then take you opinion from there depending on how he responds...

Answer 2

Long distance relationships do not work. Move on, let him do his thing and you do yours. It really doesn't matter now. You are seperated, and he is most likely messing around, as you do know that men and or young men need to release themselves and you will never know anyway. Just consider yourself single. I think it the long run you'll be happier. Someone else will come along and you'll be happy that were single. :) I don;t mean for this to sound mean, I just hope you can face reality and not be hurt later. Good luck.

Answer 3

If he gets pissy, I don't think you're in the right relationship. Give him a good letting alone.

Answer 4

i know what its like to be in a long distance relationship its hard, but if he really cares about you he wouldnt do anything, trust is a hard thing to get in a relationship but when you get it your relationship is better

Answer 5

He is torturing you, if he has NOTHING to hide then why is he hiding it ( phone #) and the getting pissy part is a big problem!

Answer 6

I would tell him you need a number in case of emergency. If he won't tell you, then he doesn't trust you.
When he says he will be at his Aunts house, tell him "THats good because you will be at your Aunts also" :)

Answer 7

if i were u i would dump him. first of all long distance relationships never work and second of all he might be lying and i no i wouldnt want to take that chance.

Answer 8

i think you should break up with this guy... he doesn't sound that good if he gets pissy with you for being worried