How can you interpret this type of mentality?
Question Details: i've been going out with this guy for more than 2 years but he has some serious minus points. what i mean by that is he doesn't have whatever things that i think are essential for our relationship. For example, he is the type who would talk and be happy only when i'm near or around him once he moves away from me, he acts like i don't exist in his life, just busy with this family or work! What can i do for this? It has caused serious problem between us! At some points i think that i should move on.....he's really ignorant/just come whenever he's free or wanted to that's all! whenever i call or want to talk it's hard to catch him! What can i do with this guy!
2007-02-16 16:54:57 · 6 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
like you said ,move on ,find somebody who you can admire and who loves you
2007-02-16 17:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he's made a deep emotional connection with you. "Out of sight, out of mind" doesn't work in intimate relationships. Share with him (in a non-judgemental, wondering, curious way) that you have noticed this, and see what he says. Sometimes people aren't aware of how their behavior is seen by others - in other words, he may not know that he does this. If it's unintentional, he'll change it. Check it out before you make any decisions.
2007-02-17 01:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D. Star Reader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it looks like he is not understanding your needs. If you tried talking to him and suggesting that he change and it did not work out, time to move.
2007-02-17 01:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are self centered. Some women cope.
2007-02-17 01:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called the why buy the cow when the milk is free mentality and you are enabling it.
2007-02-17 01:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this, but do move on, You're still not on his top 10 list.
2007-02-17 01:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Amagetron™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋