My ex-boyfriend from high school. I've never seen since two years.
I see him again, and know he wants me back. The reason we broke up because he cheated on me and was telling to many lies.
Now he says he changed but not sure to believe that. I am confused it I should date him? what's ur advice?
2007-02-16 16:54:44 · 16 answers · asked by Jamie T 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he will cheat on you!
2007-02-16 16:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, relationships that work out take time. I forget that so easily, as does every one. Yes, he may have changed... but definately find out before taking a risk of geting burnt. Nothin' wrong with being friends before dating. Besides, if he really has changed, he'll have to prove it either way.. might as well prove it the easier way. I say hang out with him for 30 days without dating him for every girl he cheated on you with, and every lie he told... if he can keep up with this, then he is probably a keeper, if he can't though... then he doesn't think you are worth waiting for... now think about that. Best wishes, and Good Luck!
2007-02-17 01:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jack S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just love the saying "when in doubt don't" its hard enough to find out your wrong about someone when you really don't doubt them, but to know that you have reason to and then giving them a chance and getting burned again really makes you feel like a fool. Then again, if you really like him and you want to give him a second chance then it is getting burned by him is something you shouldn't be surprissed by if it happens.
2007-02-17 01:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a saying, "once a cheater is always a cheater."... People don't change so just believe in yourself and don't give this guy a chance, cuz if you give him that second chance he feel like he's still in control of the relationship.... If its by gone, let it be by gones... take care..
2007-02-17 00:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't change and he just wants you back because he couldn't have you before. Cheaters and liars rarely change, don't take a chance.
If you really want to get back with him, do it, but be advised...if he cheats again, you don't deserve any sympathy.
2007-02-17 00:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by BG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a dilemma... but if he lied once, do you really want to put your heart on the line again? If he thinks he's changed, give him a little room to prove himself, but don't let him walk all over you, by any means. You have independence; thrive on it!
2007-02-17 01:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bruschetta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look gurl dump the chump!
If he cheated and lied before
wat makes u think u can
trust him now. Your
better than that. U can
find another guy whos better.
2007-02-17 01:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by Nads 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about dating? You don't even know him! Get to know him as a friend, then the dating will happen. Stop acting so desperate and take your time. You will be glad you did. If he is unwilling to take the time, then forget him!
2007-02-17 00:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by annettetyler77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-02-17 00:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get back with your ex-boyfriend from high school! this guy is a loser! after two years he should move on and date someone else. besides once you take back a cheater you lose their respect.
2007-02-17 01:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by fournewtons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had best move on.
You are young and you will meet hundreds of nice guys before it's over.
Why waste your time on something that has already gone sour?
2007-02-17 00:59:39 · answer #11 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋