Too many boys to chose from!!?

Question

I'm so confused!! I like this guy in my 3rd period Drama and one my math,history & science classes, and my ex boyfriend!! I'm pretty sure that they all like me but I don't know which one to chose!!

Answer 1

go for the one who makes you laugh.........you will be happy with him believe me

Answer 2

I don't understand the nature of your question. You state;

"I'm pretty sure they all like me".

What you HAVE NOT stated however, is anything implying that you are currently involved in a situation that involves you making ANY choice what-so-ever. Who's asked you "to choose" anything thus-far ? What makes you believe that even assuming "They all do like you" (according to your hunch), that THEY wish to commit to you, OR don't have other commitments of their own. Why do you feel you "MUST" choose anybody ? This might be nothing more than fantasy on your part. Seems as though you are creating a situation that doesn't actually exist yet, and adding stress where none needs to be.

Basically, you have nothing to be confused about yet, with one exception, and that's clutter you are creating in your own mind currently. You are making assumptions, BUT nobody has asked you to "pick them" (At least based upon what you've stated). NONE of these males in school classes have made it obvious they wish for you to "pick them", have ANY of them given you an ultimatim yet ? I don't understand the nature of your concern, it's premature. "You think they like you", you haven't yet gotten involved with ANY of these males (with the possible exception of your current EX- BF, but why is THAT even an option to choose from assuming he's an "EX" ? and WHY is he an EX ?). You are feeling and creating scenerios that do not exist, or feeling as though you need to be monogamous to what might actually be incorrect assumption on your part. "Jumping the gun" is a slang often used in such situations.


Sometimes the best answer to such questions, comes when WE reread our own question and try to see how WE would answer such a question assuming somebody else asked us the very same question; Assuming age-wise you are too young to do this currently, and relationships are new to you, you can be happy that you currently DO NOT have a real predicament to deal with, this is nothing to be "SO CONFUSED" about, unless you wish to feel confused because as strange as this sounds, SOME people derive satisfaction or gain emotionally from feeling they are "popular" and creating an "everybody wants me" type situation. While you don't wish to hear this, in creating such a setting, you may be filling a void, by creating a false sense of popularity to satiate your own ego, which might be necessary for you currently, and provide you some sense of fulfillness if there's currently a void in your life socially.

In brief- assuming this is the worst "choice" you are faced with 2007, consider this a VERY good year for you !

Answer 3

Since you are so confused, it well indicates that you are not ready for choosing. All of them are your friends and classmates and school or college mates. You will eventually develop a relationship with the right one within or outside the circle so you need not rush and end up in the ditch. This advise is given to you in the best of your own interest.

Answer 4

Get a Grip on Reality little girl. All these boys, and none of them will be around when you;re done high school .If you are like this now, it'll never change, do you want to spen your time wondering who to pick, or actually living you life? Do you actually car about any of these guys? I doubt it, do they care about you or your a**? I'll leave that one for you to answer, but plz, don't be stupid. leave the little boys alone, and live your life, grow up a little, than once you realise how fragile the hart is, than you can see if there is someone out there for you, but right now, you have no idea what you are talking about and it really annoys me. in every school there are girls just like you, that think they are all that with all theses guys who like them, and you knwo what I had a girl just like you in my school, she thought everything of herself, she ended up RAPPED. she thought that if she led on a guy than said no it would be ok, because the guy really liked herm, and was only respecting towards her, be he only respected her when she was doing what he wanted. Just be careful, leave the damn guys alone, grow up first.

Answer 5

Oh being a teenager...
My girlfriends and I used to write a list of all the boys we liked with an ink pen on our hands each day, and trust me that list changed often. (Flavor of the day)
Why pick any...just focus on school and your girlfriends, and let them all dream about you at night.

Answer 6

i dont think that you really like all these boys... you should choose the one thats on your mind the most. the one that after schools over.. your still smiling about.. you better guard your heart liking all these boys cant be good

Answer 7

Don't choose. You're young so just enjoy being friends with them all. Just be clear with them that you're not interested in being anyone's exclusive gf yet. That is what dating is about.

Answer 8

Well find the one that you like on the inside
not just for their looks

Answer 9

choose the cutest and the smartest us guys are very sweat somtimes especially the smart ones!! and pick the one you feel the best around!! the one you can trust!!

Answer 10

Wait and watch for the bells to ring.

Answer 11

Go for the guy you feel the most comfortable with.