alright i REALLY like this girl named jessica ive asked her out twice and she turned me down both times soooo i told myself to move on but i CAN`T please!!! answerr i can`t get her out of my head does this mean i love her??? because im like 11 i don`t know what love feels like!
2007-02-16 16:11:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not in love
and what you are feeling at age 11 is just a sudden urge
when youre in love you should be inspired to study and do better, love makes you happy and energetic, it makes you see life better, its not about obsession
if you love someone you can let them go
you can be happy for them even though its not you whom they would love
love is about sacrifices
its not love at all
2007-02-16 16:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you have is PUPPY love a simple crush. You are only 11 dont worry about it. You have a long life ahead of you to start now worring about girls. You will have plenty more in the future. Play with your trucks and bikes for now and leave girls alone. They have cooties and you will learn later that you need a licence to even kiss a girl but you cant get one of those until your like 30 and then they are REALLY expernsive. Stay young as long as you can.
2007-02-17 00:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're experiencing your first crush. True love is something where you're willing to sacrifice for another person, willing to forgive, and it doesn't coerce. True love is reciprocal meaning it's something you both have for one another. It's only human to feel this way and totally natural for you to go through this. Think of something that you really would like to do in life - something people only dream of - a goal that seems totally out of your reach and then take that energy you've been pouring into this vain relationship that doesn't exist and pour it into your life's dream - you could be the next basketball star or hockey player - I mean I don't know what your dreams and passions are but I'd start investing into something more worthwhile with that brainpower and heart you've got!
2007-02-17 00:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11? My gosh, sweetheart, you're 11! You shouldn't be thinking about these things! No wonder this Jessica said no. she probaly feels that its not the right time in your life to be thinking about love and dating! Most people don't fall in love till there twenty-something! The real reason you keep thinking about her is HORMONES! Don't worry, honey, in a couple of months you'll forget all about her. Concentrate on other things like, sport, friends, school, whatever. Enjoy being young and free of that great and horrible word: Love!
2007-02-17 00:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by La Genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look kid MOVE ON!!!!!!!!! The girl is 11 and obviouslly don't care for you too much because you asked her out twice and she turned you down BOTH times!!!!!Your 11 kid trust me it's just a crush your not in love you don't even know what love feels like until you've met someone that's makes you happpier than anything in the world. go back to chewing your pencil erasers and bitting your nails and grow a set!!!!
2007-02-17 00:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by *Guitar_playing_girl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be thinking of dating yet. She's probably not interested in boys yet. I started getting interested in boys when I was 13. 11 is way too young for anyone to start dating. Wait until you are in high school to start dating.
2007-02-17 00:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by crazzysinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't love her. Well just tell her how you REALLY feel. Like tell her I have a lot of feelings for you and if you just give me 1 chance I promise that I'll make it work out.
2007-02-17 00:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sydnee :)(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont luv her. u just need to stop thinking about he rso much. spend more time with ur friends. dont worry soon u wont b all obsessed with this girl. it jsut may take a lot of time. there r soo many other girls out there, u shouldnt waste ur time on one that doesnt even like u.
2007-02-17 00:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you have a big crush on this girl.
You are a bit 2 young to be dating though..
Just go have fun with your friends..you dont need a girlfriend at this age..there's plenty of other things you can do.
If you keep yourself busy..you will start to realise that you start thinking less and less about her...and then eventually you'll get over her.
2007-02-17 00:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have your first crush!! and it is rare that a person ends up going out with their first crush..i think u will get asked out by the girl you least expect
2007-02-17 00:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by heather h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋