Why does my boyfriend keep hurting my neck and making it seem insignificant when it hurts, what is he up to? does he have underlying motives? what could they be?pls im so naive.....i'm confused cuz he bought an engagement ring?
My BF keeps making excuses 4 hurting my neck? what is he really trying 2 do, & get away with?
i told him dont touch my face, he keeps moving my face which causes my neck to unwillingly move right to left cusing me days of pain and in my shoulders, and neck just by him simply moving my face right or left unvoluntarily. i told him not 2 do this anymore and that its causing me pain, and he it now keeps happening and he keeps saying he likes touching my face. 2 months ago he told me he wanted revenge, and will not be satisfied until he gets it. he hurt my neck 3 times in the last 2 months and said it was an accident, each time i told him to stop.
2007-02-16 16:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by newport l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him, he is bad news
2007-02-16 16:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy is one of those bungholes that is extremely insensitive.
He bought the ring to try and make up for what he's doing to you, and he'll only get worse if you make the mistake of marrying him. One thing is completely obvious from what you said, hun. He does not respect you very much, or he would listen to you. It's one thing to horseplay with your gf and she gets hurt accidentally, but it's another thing entirely when the guy doesn't care that he hurt her, or he's hurt her in anger. I'd strongly suggest that you lose this guy. You sound like a great catch, and you can do so much better.
2007-02-16 16:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have something wrong with you neck that makes it hurt or is he just extremely rough. If he's intentionally hurting you then you need to get out of the relationship. The engagement ring is just to keep you with him. He sound like a scary guy. Leave!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 16:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really get it, but honey, an engagement ring means nothing if you keep telling your boyf something hurts you and he doesn't listen. Forget the ring. Sit down with him, maybe when you're having a good time and say 'sweetie, that thing you do hurts my neck.' If that doesn't work, break up with him and buy yourself a nice ring
2007-02-16 16:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by glim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 07:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds as if he is getting his revenge, for whatever reason. Your best bet is NOT marry to him. He sounds as if he enjoys the pain of others, and he gets some kind of sick thrill out of it. He sounds like a budding physco sadomasochist...beware. Get out while you still can....they continually go further and further until death is the only satisfying act left.
2007-02-16 16:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him back the Ring. He give it to you, so you'll stay and allow him to keep hurting you. Don't make a scene. Just Mail it back to him And be done with him. Respect yourself. `Cause he ain't!
2007-02-16 16:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some unsuspecting moment, take a lead pipe, and whack him in the balls with it. Then tell him it shouldn't hurt. That should do it.
2007-02-16 16:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone loved you they wouldn't intentionally hurt you ... except maybe in fun sexual pain haha but yeah guy sounds like a looser pawn his ring and buy urself something nice and quit talkin to him lol
2007-02-16 16:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm... does he just randomly start moving your face and stuff? ..this sounds weird..maybe you should tell him to go see a councullor or something like that...
and maybe you 2 should take a break..because if its not working now..the marriage might not work either.
2007-02-16 16:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should marry him so he can hurt your neck forever.
Really?
No, don't marry him. Really.
2007-02-16 16:10:39 · answer #11 · answered by rambling vine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋