What should i do about my girl never understanding me!(long plz read)?

Question

Ok, my girlfrind Lushay and I have been friends since the begining of the 6th grade.But I've have always saw girl next door(the girl i wanted to be...more than friends).I finally asked her to be my valentine on valentine's day she was shocked but said yes.Now the problem comes in she doesnt understand me!I asked her 2 come 2 the movies she wants to bring best friend too(no 1 knows about us and she wants it to stay that way)So why the hell did she do thattell her to come to my house she comes with friends I wanted 2 give her a massage.I dont want 3 people watching.I told her we had to talk with a note.She nodded she thinks we should break up b-cuz we were better friends.She said that but she keeps actig like we go together whats going on plz help me yall.I really love her.

Ok, my girlfrind Lushay and I have been friends since the begining of the 6th grade.But I've have always saw girl next door(the girl i wanted to be...more than friends).I finally asked her to be my valentine on valentine's day she was shocked but said yes.Now the problem comes in she doesnt understand me!I asked her 2 come 2 the movies she wants to bring best friend too(no 1 knows about us and she wants it to stay that way)So why the hell did she do thattell her to come to my house she comes with friends I wanted 2 give her a massage.I dont want 3 people watching.I told her we had to talk with a note.She nodded she thinks we should break up b-cuz we were better friends.She said that but she keeps actig like we go together whats going on plz help me yall.I really love her.P.S. can sum1 IM me or Email me or both so we can eep in contact about this reationship.

sould i let her bring her friend to the movies or say no

Answer 1

sounds to me like the girl is confused. maybe she didnt know that you cared about her like that and when you said it out of the blue like that it might have just shocked her and she just might not know what to do. She also might not want to lose you as a friend it seems like you have been friends for quite awhile and she doesnt know what to do or say around you so she asks her friends over and doesnt want anyone to know anything and is worried she might lose your friendship if you get way serious in this relatonship. Just try taling to her ask her how she feels about the whole thing and try to get her to talk about it that way you know where you stand with her. good luck hun

Answer 2

Looks like you are into her, more then she is to you. You have to remember that you wanted to be with her for a long time. She was "shocked" when you asked her. Well, that's because she's not into you like that. She just didn't want to hurt your feelings. I mean, you guys are friends, right? She doesn't want to be alone with you, that's why she brings friends with. She doesn't trust you beyond friends, yet. Just get a grip on that & kick it down a level, with friends. It worked out better that way anyway. If not, she will end up dumping you and then you risk losing a friendship forever.

Answer 3

well i guess it depends if the girl is pretty or not. but the second picture is definately better than the edite one which seems like you have somehing to hide. try takeing a picture from the front and not the side. show her a good picture. not showing one would be worse... it implies that you're EXTREMELY ugly which isnt the case. besides, its just an online friend right?

Answer 4

First of all, it ain't love. It's seems to me to be a little crush. Next, break up with her. If she doesn't respect at least a few of your wishes, then she ain't worth the time. Sorry dude. She's not the one. Stick with Lushay, if she'll have you. She knows you better.

Answer 5

She doesn't want to be your girlfriend. But she wants to keep you on the string. Cut the line.

Answer 6

Talk to her! Notes are harder to understand than face to face. If you really love her that much, you will know what to do. go with your instincts!