I am really sad today, can some one tell me why women treat me bad and push me away but men dont. i am a wom?
i have a question please be nice. I am sad today and usually i am happy and bubbily. But today i am sad. why is it that when it comes to women i am never good enough to be their friend or sister or what ever. But with men its fine i am plenty good enough. they all like me and find good qualities and adore me they think highly of me unnless its one of my friends husbands for boyfriends then its different. but i am a women and most women wont give me the time or day and if they do they treat me like ****. they hurt me and treat me bad and they never last
2007-02-16 16:02:08 · 16 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey do you really want those bitches to be your friend. I sure wouldn't
2007-02-16 16:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea....I can only guess that may be you are over average attractive, maybe women feel threatened. Interesting that you mention the friends husbands and boy friends treat you 'differently' so I wouldn't mind betting that this is it. Especially if you are single too, maybe they see you as a threat. All you can do is just be your usual happy self, and bear in mind that they are not that important. Good friends take years to make, not weeks. I could probably count on one hand the number of people I can really trust!
2007-02-16 16:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the fact that you say you have many guy friends that think you're awesome is probably the reason why girls don't like you. Girls are jealous, catty bitches, for the most part, and are easily threatened by other girls (especially ones who get a lot of male attention). That's probably why. Find a girl who isn't insecure with herself and knows she's fabulous and you can probably have a great friendship with her. Good luck!
2007-02-16 16:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an attractive women? Many women are threatened by attractive and intelligent women. Mostly, because they are jealous, or feel insecure about themselves. One of these days you will meet another woman or women, who are secure within themselves and can offer true friendship. The women you are talking about are probably very shallow, and the friendship wouldn't last anyway. Keep your chin up...nothing is wrong with you. You can't control other peoples ignorance's.
2007-02-16 16:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Heather. It sounds to me like they're jealous. Not just of you but also of your ability to attract men. They may also see you as a threat if their own men make a bee-line to you.
Don't be sad. It's part of what makes life so special. The best reward you will get is working out the way to make these women treat you nicer.
So look forward to that challenge ... and enjoy winning them over!
2007-02-16 16:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, these women probably just feel threatened by you, since you seem to get along with men so well! They probably might feel as if you are not really approachable, and might feel that you are a potential danger to their relationship with their husband/boyfriend/brother. Just try and be friendly, adn if that doesn't work, try and tell them that you are not a threat. AND if that doesn't work, move on! If they can't accpet you, they're not worth your time, so try to find friends elsewhere
2007-02-16 16:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by La Genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's not you it's them.There's something about you that they feel threaten by.Men like you because you know how to have a laugh and hang out.Trust me babes the women you want to be friends with are bitches, unless their like me and a couple other women up in 360 then you've made a lucky escape
2007-02-17 10:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sash# 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am a woman and i've only had about 2 or 3 real girl friends in my whole life, i mean real friends. Mabey you are looking in the wrong places. Go to church, try their ladies prayer groups,
Women there are all ages, and most are very nice.
i know, guys are always nicer, even at the bank.
please don't let your joy depend on others, God loves you!
a woman at the market treats me like dirt for no reason. my friend said the women in her office are all gossips and bitchy, one girl i know had nervous breakdown at the job- from the bitchy co-woker of hers, she's alright now.
2007-02-16 16:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know why. Men probably find you attractive, fun to be with, and a generally likeable person. Women HATE that, especially if they think their man has the hots for you. I suggest you pay attention to your own body language and words when you are near other people. Perhaps you are sending off signals and don't even realize it.
2007-02-16 16:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the women feel threatened by you for whatever reason, and the guys think you're hot. Don't worry over the trivial stuff. I don't have the perfect answer, but look inside of yourself and analyze yourself from another's perspective.
2007-02-16 16:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault. Eventually you'll have a good friend that will last. Alot of girls might be jealous because it's not hard for you to get the guys. Just don't sweat!! =D
2007-02-16 16:07:37 · answer #11 · answered by lollypop3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋