Got and quit 4 jobs last year. Got and lost 3 girlfriends. Still live at home. Just turned 24, and turned in my two weeks notice today.
No real romantic interests at all. Not even any friends I can talk to about this kind of thing. What gives?
2007-02-16 15:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by scotttboy 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Have you taken the myers-briggs test? This test can give you alot of insight on your personality and what motivates you. There are several free online tests, just google it. Best wishes!
2007-02-16 15:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by starryeyed75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be clinically depressed, I'd ask your doc to give you the screening test. Or you may have ADHD where you can't keep your attention on a girl (or a job) very long. I think, in either case, a good talk with a doc will help. Please don't be embarrassed or ashamed, these are both HUGELY common problems.
Maybe if you get the issues under control, you will find the motivation to move out. It's got to be hard to keep a girlfriend being 24 and living at home, at least I wouldn't have dated a guy that lived at home when I was that age.
2007-02-16 16:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Avon Lady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to a psychiatrist. There is no shame in that. Otherwise you could be living at home at 34 asking the same questions. I think you may be bipolar that you quit your jobs and girlfriends so often. Whatever it is, the doctor will be able to figure it out since he is a specialist. Don't get discouraged, 24 is really young.
2007-02-16 18:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rockford 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just need to take a week off and evaluate what you want to do with your life. career, girlfriends, family, most importantly yourself. Living at home is not bad! think about it you can probably still do just about anything you want and you do not have to pay rent! Bonus...now if you were 30 that would be a different story. Think positive and everything will be ok. If you really want to know the Secret...Ask God and pray. He knows all and will provide.
2007-02-16 16:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by tasgunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too hard on yourself. Perhaps move to a new location & start fresh? The right job & the right partner will happen with time. Perhaps stay with a job you don't LOVE just for the experience & ability to say YOU DID IT. Another option is to talk to your Dr. There are lots of possibilities....depression which is usually treatable is IMO a possible extreme. Maybe your metabolism is off...maybe you need to adjust your diet/exercise regimen. Any number of things could be going on. You're still home...talk to your parents!! Good luck & hang in there.
2007-02-16 16:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by elmothree2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're just unhappy. Haven't decided what you want out of life yet. I'd get help from someone. Talk to your Pastor, if you attend a church. Could be you just don't like yourself. If this is the case think about what you could do to change. Make new friends. Find a hobby you'd enjoy and do it with other people who like it. Read the Bible.
2007-02-16 16:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey!! don't put yourself down!! Try some matching website like Match.com or something!! You'll find your one and only, when the time comes! And who cares if you still live at home, if your parents don't mind, then the heck with it! You're living life the way you want to, and that should be fine with everyone!
2007-02-16 16:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by purplegumdrop 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you still live at home. I think its time to be a man and be responsible. Once you do that, things will change for the better. Do you make enough money to support yourself? If so, get out and get your own place. Women do not like men that live with mom and dad!!!. Go out to the local hangout and if you meet someone that you think is your equal, just be yourself and my god whatever you do dont say you live with MOM AND DAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 16:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by crystal lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think is wrong with you? from what you say you could either just be impulsive or easily distracted etc or have just had a bad run of jobs/partners.
2007-02-16 16:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by wil petal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like depression - how about giving yourself something
to work towards - for example go travelling in the far east - it
may motivate you to keep a job and travelling will sort your head out
good luck
2007-02-16 23:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by UC BLUES -Jose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋