I have a fiance that I really love and it happen that one they I met this men he is so attractive and handsome but I can tell my fiance that I was in love with another person and this guy that i just met Loves me too and promise me so many things but I don't know He is older that me like 8yrs and i love him also should i leave my fiance or leave the new man that i just met and continue with my formal relation. Please help me out. I need Adult idea pls.
2007-02-16 15:50:51 · 18 answers · asked by ybloyewole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In all honesty, I think you have to look at yourself and what you want in life...but to me, you don't sound like somebody who's ready to be married, or even engaged...no offence. If you love somebody enough to accept a marriage proposal, you should have no doubts in your mind about loving him... if you loved him enough to say yes, then why are you thinking about leaving him for some guy you just met who claims he loves you???
Perhaps you should tell your fiance that you're not the woman he thinks you are and that you can't marry him at this time because you feel that you may have a better life wiht some guy who you just met and is "promising" you the world....
I believe you need to grow up a little bit before you contimplate marriage again.
2007-02-16 15:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can only truly love one person at a time. If you love someone with all of your heart then there is not enough room for another. Are you sure you love either one? It sounds to me like you are not ready to be married. Think about this. If you are in doubt, you don't have to tell your fiance about the other man but you do need to tell him that you are not ready for marriage. You owe him that.
2007-02-16 16:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by babysnake2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know anything about the new man. You should not make a quick decision about someone you don't even know.
You are distracted with a new man when you are supposed to be engaged to marry. You should be honest and tell your fiance that you aren't ready for a committment.
Don't be in a hurry to marry if there is any doubt in your mind at all.
2007-02-16 15:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is simple your having a unfair
so you have a fiance that loves you more than he loves his self and then you have a man that you just meet and you love him hes not worth you you were in love before he came along and all you find in the new guyis looks and your fiance you have so much more you have real love with your fiance also if your having to ask this it sounds like ither your nt ready to git married or your not really in love but dont cheat your to good for doing a slutey thing like that
2007-02-16 15:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by mommya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart, where do you want to be, have you made a list and weighed your options, How do you feel about this man, if you love him and not your fiance then you should be with him, but are you loving him because he promises you things or because you truly love him. Think long and hard.
2007-02-16 15:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your ready for adult ideas. Love and commitment are two different things. Seems like you more interested in having people love you than you are in being in a committed relationship. There will alwasy be people that come along that you can love or will love you if given a chance but when you are in a committed relationship, you pass them by. By all means, if you are not ready to be in a committed relationship or think you are in love with more than one man than do not marry until you are ready to commit.
2007-02-16 15:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an adult idea. GROW UP!
You obviously have no business being engaged to be married if you are still losing your heart to other men.
If you are so easily confused about who you want to be with, then you likely aren't ready to settle down with anybody.
So call off the engagement, & continue playing the field until you are able to truly COMMIT your heart to ONE man.
2007-02-16 15:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you'd be making a very STUPID decision. you have something really great going on why would you ruin it for sometihng new. plus the new guy can tell you anything he wants but most likely doens't have half the credibility that your fiance has. Also you should never leave the one love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
2007-02-16 15:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by roxyangel0007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on your fiance. You already have a man you love and loves you and he is wanting to spend the rest of his life with you so what's the problem? Forget this new geezer. Don't screw your life up b/c your hormones got away from you.
2007-02-16 15:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Smeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell i think
u know that other guy longer n better
get 2 know the new one 2 and judge 4 urself. maybe even make a new close friend or sumthin
2007-02-16 15:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋