My exBF is starting to scare me more and more.
We broke up 8 months ago.
I actually moved 100 miles to get breathing room from him. I gave into his guilt tactics and tried to be his friend. He is terribly vain and dyes his hair for high profile entertainment job.
I did it for him and althoug he has a serious new girlfriend he told me she couldnt dye his hair an dId be a great friend to help him once a month.
I did do it a couple times since moving just to shut him up.
It is a 5 hour round trip to see him.
10 days ago I had major surgery for a scar revision requiring nearly 150 stiches.
At no time did my ex show concern, instead he said my surgery would fail.
And now he has demanded that I come dye his hair.
I finally told him no I could not do that. I am recovering from surgery and am no going out anywhere socially for a few weeks.
He went ballistic & called me a selfish f-kn ***** & then told me Ill have to work to be his friend and that if I not his friend that since Im his ENEMY
2007-02-16 15:47:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
told him not to contact me anymore that he is a truly scary MF.
He then screamed I had better watch out.
Then he emailed me that Im a liar and that Im just lazy and a bad friend.
He really is freaking me out what should I do ?
Now he just sent me another email saying Im a witch and the daughter of a with and am evil. And that Im a JUDAS and thta in dante ring of hell Im in the inner ring !
OMG - He is 39 years old and this crazy !
Im 30 and think I'll only date normal guys around my own age
2007-02-16 15:49:20 · update #1
I don't know if he is dangerous or not, but he sure has an anger problem, and is very stuck on himself. I request strongly that you get a restraining order to keep him away from you--he cannot come within 100 yards of your place, and you can have it good for one year. Be prepared: you can get a temporary one-for two weeks-a week before the court date for the one year order-he will need to be served (not by you) any/and all documentation, etc. you have to bring to court. To serve him, you will need someone, 18 or older, other than yourself, to serve him with the papers. Due to the fact that it is a 5 hour round trip to his place from yours, when you get the two week temp. order, please consider asking the judge if the paperwork can be mailed to him at his address, again by someone other than you. One thing I request, is that if you haven't already deleted his emails to you-that are so bad-PLEASE KEEP the e mails. This is your documentation (proof) of how bad his anger is. Please print them up, so you have your "hard copy" for court. Again, he will need to have these "served" on him. This means, you will need a copy for him, a copy for yourself, and copy for the court. Usually the courts like to have the "originals" of documentation. When you get the temp. restraining order, you will need to keep a copy on you (your pocket/purse), one in your home, your work place, etc. And, please keep in mind, that the order won't be "in effect" until he has been served.DO NOT FOR ANY REASON TRY TO CONTACT HIM once you go to court to get the temp. order. If he e mails you, please save and print them up Put the correct date they were sent to you on the hard copy. Any/all other e mails he sends to you once the temp. order has been served on him, again, keep-print up. Any phone calls he makes to you, if you have an answering machine, with tape, please don't erase those, keep the tapes for more "evidence" of how he is with you. You will need your additional documentation in the courthouse-whereever they tell you to take it-Protection order office, etc. at least 3 days before your court date. Again, any/all of this documentation will need to be served to him one week before the court date. I truly wish you the best. Take care.
2007-02-16 16:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem awful dumb to additionally be asking this question. advance up and end the drama. unload him and dont' have touch with him. he's frightening and dont' p.c.. a guy like this lower back. advance up and make clever judgements. He could care much less approximately you. it is in basic terms that he does not desire everybody else to have you ever. women human beings under 40 are killed with the help of jealous enthusiasts extra cases than something. don't be stupid. wreck out kind this jerk. i'm going to kill you in case you don't be the different woman? Sounds magical. lower back, circulate on or you would be sorry and according to threat pay with your existence.
2016-09-29 05:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by goodfellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be Dangerous but is very weird Be careful
2007-02-16 15:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Redmac1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a creep! Change your email address and don't tell him. Don't talk to him at all. Do what ever you can to stay away from him.
2007-02-16 15:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by crazzysinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just stop dying his hair and change your phone number he is not crazy maybe all the dying has made his brain a little bit loopy you know what i am saying
2007-02-16 15:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by igotsmartz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you dye his hair anyway. tell him do it himself or get a hair dresser to do it for him. you not required to dye his fair. he got 2 hands to dye hair. he got money to get hairdresser to do hair job.
save e-mail if he write anything threatening so you can produce in court when you get restraining order. if he drives out to threaten you, get restraining order or call cop.
he no care for you except to use you to dye his hair. if he care for you, he would wish you speedy recovery on eye surgery. he be real ****** to wish you bad eye surgery.
give him finger and tell him to f-off.
2007-02-16 15:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away girlfriend!! the dude is scary!!
2007-02-16 15:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by emmi m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋