What can i do? i love my ex but i dont kno if he feels the same how will i know if hes being honest with me? what are some signs to kno wthat this is the real thing? What are some signs that he is for real?? We were together for a year and 6 months so how will i know thta this love is real?? please help me!!! he tells me that im "wifey" and he still loves me and that how im his future wife but i don tkno if hes for real or not how will i know?what can i do?? i need help! i dont wanna get all wrapped up and he plays me! so wat should i do? how will i know if hes for real?
2007-02-16 15:29:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK sweetness..... You will know that you are "wifey," when he proposes. You have already said that he's your EX, so don't you think that he's your EX for a reason? If it's meant to be it will happen. No need to force what God may have already put together for you. Only time can tell you if he's the ONE!!
2007-02-16 15:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Pumpkin love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to these questions. Look inside and what do you see? You say that "he plays me" suggesting that he is manipulative and this worries you. Do you really want a relationship with a man about whom you are uncertain? What about him has changed from when you were together? Probably nothing. Did you have a reason for leaving? It's still there. You can answer all these questions if you look deep inside yourself, trust yourself and believe in yourself. Don't trade the immediate satisfaction of beginning a relationship for the long-term suffering you were experiencing when you were together. Find a new one where you can say you don't have any of these questions. Good luck.
2007-02-16 15:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off ask yourself why are you his EX? What happened to put you there? THE EX!! Some men/women don't want anyone else to have what they cant have anymore. So the best thing to do is mess with there minds and keep them at arms length. This way they are available when they want them. Move on and find your real true love.
2007-02-16 15:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Judy Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, but if you aren't actually together and he isn't actually committing to you, he's playing you. (You called him an ex, instead of your boyfriend, so I'm thinking you're not in a relationship?)
Walk away. If he lets you go, he decided you weren't worth the fight. If he changes his attitude and really works to get you back, it might be worth letting him win you back. Be sweet to him, but also make him work to get you back. Take control of your own situation! Don't try to play him back, but decide what kind of treatment you deserve and make him give it to you.
Be strong, no matter what happens. There are lots of people in the world to love.
2007-02-16 15:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
real love is nothing you have to question. its something you feel and you know its a mutual feeling. not a blinded type love that you feel something could ever come in between you two. actions speak louder than words. does his actions show that he loves you? nothing can tear a relationship containing real love. even if you broke up for a quick minute you wouldnt even be concerned that your guy would use that opportunity to hurt you. if you can say yes to that confidently then you got something. anything else is a gamble.
2007-02-16 15:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all its only 6 months, and marrage should be the last thing on your mind. you haven't even dated him for a year yet wait to see if he is commited to your relationship before you start tp call it "serious".
2007-02-16 15:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by ~Soul Socks~ aka <Spiderwebs& 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if he's causing you this much grief, and your still not sure if he loves you, dump him fast! He is not worth it. If you don't know that he loves you enough to die for you, get out now.
2007-02-16 15:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by Melody L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur really in love he'll come bak
2007-02-16 15:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by musicislife808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋