So I told her I liked her, and then after a couple of weeks of not seeing her, I got back to seeing her regularly. She always avoids me, and even runs away from me at times when I am near. When I try to speak with her, she ends the conversations quick using short replies. She never tries to look at me.
What is WRONG with her? Is she retarded? We are 18 years old and I have been nothing BUT a perfect gentleman with her.
2007-02-16 15:26:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know her pretty well. for about 7 months. I guess she never knew it and was really surpised when I told her?
2007-02-16 15:32:37 · update #1
she just does not like you
if she is just shy she would not attempt to run away after you have confessed
i know it hurst and $ucks,and really feels weird so to save you from the pain of it,just dont think about it too much and give her what she wants, leave her alone, she is not the right girl for you, there would come a day that you will find someone who can really connect with you and not freak out
and hey , you really should be a perfect gentleman , men should always do that,its not something you need to tell, it should come out natural
2007-02-16 15:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol @ retarded .. Well it sounds like she's not really interested. I'll give ya a quick run down .. Sometimes females like a certain guy up to the point he opens his mouth an tells her his interested in her, then as weird as it sounds some females lose interest for some reason. Not sure why but that's females for ya :D If she wants to have anythin to do with you maybe you should try and play a lil hard to get and see if you get a response and if not then it was never ment to be.
GoodLuck with it.
2007-02-16 23:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Succubus.Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... are you cute? lol ;P No but seriously...she's avoiding awkwardness I suppose, every girl is different. And no wonder she's avoiding you if you call her retarded... girls can sense feelings like that. If you really want to know, ask HER, or just move on to another girl if you're such a "perfect gentleman"
2007-02-16 23:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not retarded. Dude, you may be the perfect gentlemen, but you have to understand, if you just dump something like "I Like you" on a girl, she might just be a little nervous. I mean, come on, she won't just jump in your arms. Give her some time. She should come around.
2007-02-16 23:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by spydogink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she desn't like you. It's tuff handling rejection but we all face it sooner or later. If you are a gentleman it shouldn't be that hard for you to find a new girl.
2007-02-16 23:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by ~Soul Socks~ aka <Spiderwebs& 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean that you being a gentleman would make you get a girlfriend easily. she isn't afraid of you, its just that she doesn't want to be in love with you. she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, it might mean that she doesn't want to close all her options to all the guys in the world. your chase might as well be over.
2007-02-16 23:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Retarded? haha you crack me up
well it creeps some girls out when a guy likes them, and they dont like them back, and they dont know how to react so they just run.....I know this, because I have done that a few times myself.
2007-02-16 23:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a player, but not saying it because you don't want to be embarrassed? Maybe she has another boyfriend. Does she know you that well?
2007-02-16 23:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of girlz r like that. theres good news, good news: shes probably shy to tlk to u ( her crush) theres nothing wrong with her.
2007-02-16 23:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by ~~xoxox*jazmin*xoxox♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are wasting your time and hurting your heart by presuing her. She is leading you on. Find someone who doesn't do that
2007-02-16 23:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋