When One is abstinence for whatever reason..can he or she still do other things such as foreplay and ect without the actual one to one sex??
2007-02-16 15:11:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Abstinence from sexual intercourse does not have to exclude masturbation and self stimulation to orgasm. Abstinence from sex does exclude foreplay because sex is centered in the mind as well as in the reproductive organs. If someone else is involved in stimulating physical pleasure, it is still sexual and foreplay is a part of sex even if it does not lead to intercourse. The unity of more than one person in the act causes a need for that individual to participate and a demand for fulfillment. It can thereby, cause the same physical addiction brought about by sexual intercourse. For that reason it cannot be considered abstinence.
2007-02-16 15:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only to a certain point and if you let things go passed that point it will be all over. Many girls start out just "messing around" and before they know it the boy has hit home base.
The best thing is to keep your clothes on, limit his hand and yours and remain a "good" girl.
Never under estimate the power of the sex urge. Girls have a "breaking over" point and so do the boys except a boys "breaking over" point ends up with almost an animal instinct and is very hard for him to stop. He almost becomes pocessed. Do NOT push a young man too far!!!
Good luck. Pops
2007-02-16 23:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Pops 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think so, when they say consummate the marriage there actually referring to having sex...if you haven't then it should be considered abstinence even if there was some foreplay..my opinion only.
2007-02-16 23:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay just leads to sex...so no. depends on the reason for abstinence.
2007-02-16 23:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing, making out--stuff like that, yeah. It's dangerous, of course. I mean, if you're trying to remain a virgin, that's not the easiest way to do it. It can be hard to have that barrier of "not going too far" when you've gone as far as making out.
2007-02-16 23:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess but trust me foreplay and all that can and WILL lead to you and whoever going all the way. trust me i know from personal experince.
goodness i wish i would have been given advice like pops before........maby that would have helped me............oh well too late now
2007-02-16 23:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it is okay. It really depends on how far are you going with the absitence idea. It means different to different people.
2007-02-16 23:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by khrycho17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup u can still b abstinate cuz u not havin sex
2007-02-16 23:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Everyone I know who has waited until marriage has still experienced some other things first.
2007-02-16 23:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on why they are abstinent.
If they are abstaining due to religious beliefs, then they probably won't do those thing.
IF they are abstaining to avoid pregnancy, they probably will.
2007-02-16 23:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋