I used to like 2 diff guys. the first one found out I like him, and he's still my friend and stuff so i dont have a prob w/ him.
the second one...well...i <3 him like a best best best friend. he is a best best best friend. and a lot of ppl were sayin they cood tell i liked him. so i toned it down a bit, and then he told my friend 2 tell me who his crush was. i listened 2 her and she said he had a crush on a girl i (used to) hate. i felt heartbroken when she told me this. is there sumthing wrong with me for feeling this way?
2007-02-16 15:10:39 · 15 answers · asked by Murr;; Fang 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope! Nothing wrong with you girl!!! It's natural to feel that way..even if he was just a friend! I've had guys that I didn't even like as a boyfriend type (just a good friend) and found out that they liked some skank and was kinda...I guess...disappointed. That's the only way I can describe it. Granted that was a while ago. I'm happily married now and far from the age I was then...but I still remember. I think it's natural. You're like "WTF?" lol "What's wrong with me?" ..."I'm better than that skank!" lol You'll get over it and realize that you ARE better. He's just not the right guy for you right now.
2007-02-16 15:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by cutesy76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with you for feeling that way.
At least now that you know he has a crush on someone else you can try to get over your feelings of liking him. The hurt you felt when you found out should help you to get over him, and move on.
2007-02-16 23:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong u really liked this guy and he liked someone u didnt like as a person which i think is even worse than him just likin some random chick
i think ur reaction is completely normal i know if that happened to me i would be heartbroken too
im sure ull be ok though :)
2007-02-16 23:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We (theres two ppl here so im not crazy and making up mult. personalities) think that theres nothing wrong with u, your feelings are natural because u like him and dont want to see him with anyone else especially with someone u had bad feelings about in the past
2007-02-16 23:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with you, you have strong feelings for a person theres nothing wrong with that! you are entitled to like him and have strong feelings for a person you are human! just move on! Theres many other boys out there in the world hes not the only one out there for youso just still be his friend(if you want to be) and just move on...good luck!
2007-02-16 23:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by mariozwifey2be 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to that moron bassdog. It's normal to feel disappointed when you're hoping for something(especially in relationship seeking) and then not getting it. Don't tear yourself up over it though. Things just don't always happen as we would like. Keep your chin up! Somebody you like will come along again.
2007-02-16 23:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Papa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not hon! I feel that way too! The guy I like is in love with the ***** that stole my best friend! thank God she has a boyfriend!
2007-02-16 23:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by heyheyhey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a completely normal reaction. You should have a problem at first, but soon it'll clear up. If he doesn't like you, he's not worth the heartbreak.
2007-02-16 23:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by boreo o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong w/ you. Unfortunately we have to experience these types of situations to learn more about ourselves. Not everyone we fall for will fall for us. Don't be afraid to fall again because one of these times.....there will be a certain someone there to catch you.
2007-02-16 23:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by stephsilva1013 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there's nothing wrong with you. You're just going through a phase that i went though it'll wear off.
2007-02-16 23:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by Junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋