i like this guy but.......................i will pick a best anwser 10pts?

Question

i can not date yet and he is in a grade higher then me he has been showing signals saying he likes me but we still havent talked he is always staring at me and at my school dance he was looking for him and when someone would stand in front of him he would move to have me in his view and when it was time to slow dance his friend would like push him towards me as if they were telling him to ask me to dance (i didnt dance with anyone else)but he didnt does he like me what should i do since i cant date

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Answer 1

i think maybe he's just a tad shy. does he know that ur mum wont let u date? coz if he does, maybe thats one reaons why he wont approach you..

he could also be afraid that you wont like him if he does suddenly tell u he likes u and wont like the feeling of rejection... so the next part is up to you. IM not allowed to date and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and he's older than me also but it was MY decision, not his or my parents..

if u wanna go ahead with it then show him sure signs that ur interested.. smile at him, even talk to him or his friends (just make sure u act clear about the fact that u like the guy and not his friends!!).. if he starts to show you he might like you too, sit with him sometimes.. start small talk.. about anything at all.. just to show that ur interested in him knowing bout u then ask questions u wanna noe about him so he knows u ARE interested.. he might just crack and ask you out but if he's still shy maybe just wait till he's ready, especially when he shows he likes you..

if YOU're ready then ask him out, but make it casual.. just say something like.. im going by gloria jeans for a drink, wanna come? like that.. so if he says no, it's not like he rejected you and you can still talk to him later without feeling wierd about it.. be yourself and enjoy what you're doing with him.. even if its just saying hi.

i think the fact that he looks at u and that his friends pushed him towards u to dance shows he does like u because well.. his friends want to see u together but i think he's just afraid of rejection.. dont be put off by this!! just coz he's not making a move doesnt mean he's not interested.. just not sure of himself.. YOU be the one to make him feel good about you and himself and also.. if u want him but cant have him coz u cant date.. get to know him and be good friends and when ur comfortbale.. tell him how u feel but ask him if hes willing to wait for ya.. it could still work!! if you want in now, go for it! if he's a good guy, you're mum will understand.. or she doesnt have to know.. in the end, it's up to you what you do

good luck!! =]

Answer 2

How old are you? Chances are this guy likes you. Just because you can't date doesn't mean you can't have a little fling at school. Daddy never needs to know. Why don't you try talking to him? It's ok to make the first move these days. Just make it clear that you can't date outside of school and ask if he wants to have lunch with you at school or something. Does your dad let you go out with groups of friends? Then you can get like 5 people together and have him included just don't ever let on that you and this guy are hot for each other and dad will be none the wiser. Wow I'm horrible, I'm giving advice on how to fool your dad, but my dad was a tight crab as well so I understand daddy's being a joy killer. Just don't get yourself into trouble.

Answer 3

Wait until you are old enough to date and then date him.Until then just get to know him as a friend.It's ok to be friends,isn't it?And then by the time you are ready to date you'll already know him really well and feel comfortable being around him.

Answer 4

It sounds to me that he does like you. Just be friends for now and wait until you're older. Or if you're the rebellious type, such as myself, you could try sneaking around, just be VERY careful. Trust takes a lot of time to regain once you have lost it.

Answer 5

Sounds like he is interested in you but since you are still underage, he isn't going to waste any time on you.

It may all be in your mind and he is not at all interested. If he was interested, in you, he would make an effort to talk to you and get you prepared for you to "come of age".

Good luck. Pops

Answer 6

You can still hang out with him at school!

The other possibility is that his friend likes you as well and he was trying to get him to ask you to dance...

Answer 7

he likes you
but youre right i admire the patience and control that you have over yourself
only a few teenager would even think about taking things slow,
go and continue being patient and having control. you know that deep down eventhough you like him, that there is a definite and right way to go with life
go and continue making the right decisions

Answer 8

You don't have to bribe Me for heaven's sake! Now it sounds like he already has you in his sites. So use your smile. His hormones will lead him over to you when he gets enough of your smiles. Work on a sweet, likable, interested smile!! Good luck!!
@8-)

Answer 9

i think you should probably just ask him if you can call him sometime, because then you aren't really tellin ghim you like him, but then its something you can do to get to know him since you cant date yet.

he probably does like you, its just always akward to make the first move. i would go for it and i think you will be pleasantly surprised.

Answer 10

just sit back and relax, get to know him at school and events.
just cause you can't date yet doesn't mean you can get to know him and even become friends possibly more in the future.