This very hot guy contacted me (on Valentine's Day!) thru a personals site I had a profile on. He lives in MD & I live in TX :( He & I chatted on yahoo messenger for a while & have talked on the phone too. I have told him I already feel so drawn to him & very connected even though I don't really know him very well. He claims he feels the same however, we have had erotic conversations a couple of times. This is only 2 days later & I'm already wondering what all this means?! He is coming 2 Dallas next mo. and we want 2 meet. My question is, this guy is so hot and has an unbelievable body and could get 10 girls easy where he lives so why me? Surely he's not just looking for a booty call while he's in Dallas? He didn't even tell me he was coming here until we were really hitting it off. We've texted on our cell phones & chatted online & he compliments me and I do the same 2 him & I just don't know what to think about it. I asked him if he would relocate here if I was 'the 1" & he said yes!
2007-02-16 14:57:04 · 6 answers · asked by halo76a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not meet with him until after you have had several real conversations with him on the phone and you get a real feel for him.
Does he sound older than he says he is?
What does he want to do when you two meet?
The fact that he is including on-line erotica in your chats is a big red flag.
Has he been asking you about money or personal possessions?
Take a realistic look at what you feel from these conversations.
If he still seems on the up and up.
Still be careful and only meet in a public place with some of your friends around.
Make sure you and your friends sit in an area where you can view him before he see's you.
If you see or suspect any red flags or danger get out and don't look back.
I am not saying this guy is a predator, but this is just how some poor unsuspecting souls are snatched up and never heard from again.
This could be the love of your life or it could be some sick deviant who has shown you pictures of another attractive male just to get you interested in a meeting .
* Some love sick girls have shown up at these meetings only to be sold into slavery and/or a life of torture.
Please beware!
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2007-02-16 15:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhhh dear, two days later and ur ready for a committment???? you must be joking, right? r u sure it's not just a booty call? He's hot and has an unbelieveable body, blah, blah, blah............so do a ton of other people who chat. Why haven't you spoken to him on the phone? r u sure it's his body he's sending pics of? why r u so insecure about the whole thing? don't set urself up for failure and get hurt. You sound so "taken" with him and in only two days?? give it some time. Meet him if you want but make sure it's in public, he might not be the person he says, then again he might. Don't be so quick to fall for someone, you've got a lifetime in front of you no matter how long or short it might be. Good luck to you.
2007-02-16 23:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by kisinabrit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be wary of guys you've met online. If he is very hot, it may be because he got a good picture of himself and touched it up, it may be that he is older now and that is a picture of how he USED to look, or it could even be that he hasn't sent you a photo of himself at all!
Make sure you meet him in a crowded place and that other people will know where you are meeting. It would be best if you could bring someone with you to the meeting.
Now if he is real, perhaps in real life he is rather shy and not very good at socialising.
2007-02-16 23:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When something seems too good to be true it often is. Just be careful. Guys will tell girls anything to get them in the sack sometimes, and then "gone w/the wind."
2007-02-16 23:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doubtful story.... anyway take care... maybe he is a swindler,,, this kind of man is not to be trusted because i heard lot of stories like yours from my brother in law, and he himself does that kind of swindling......be careful..... dont be so touch....
2007-02-16 23:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by zagi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes, be careful
2007-02-16 23:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by tuna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋