Has some one ever been injured by their dad since young? Like yelling bad words at yousince you were 2, or wishing you were born a different gender? I have.
2007-02-16 14:47:01 · 11 answers · asked by Alexandra F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes I have lots of time but I try and for give him because I don't think he know what Cinda of man he is.He did all kinds of stuff so try and forgive.
2007-02-16 14:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I didn't have a Dad who injured me or said bad words, but I was just invisible to him period. You can't control someone else, but you can control yourself. Be happy with who you are, no matter what Dad says or thinks. Sometimes, writing down how you feel is very therapeutic. You can even let him read it, and maybe it will open his eyes and heart up a little. Even if he doesn't respond at all...there will be a little seed planted in his brain. Either way you will feel better about being able to express yourself. It's really sad when some people can be so narrow minded that they hurt their children with nonsense and ignorance. I wish the best of luck...and remember you won't always be living under his roof.
2007-02-16 22:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate my dad so much..he did so many horrible things to me and my 5 year old sister. He did hard core drugs and drank. my mom couldn't do anything about it..I just wanted to tell you that you shouldn't drag yourself through the dirt about this. Look at it this way: your dad doesnt like you; but look at all the people you dont even know care about you a whole lot more then he ever did. =]
I hope i helped...=/ So sorry about your situation. Once more thing..I dont even feel my dad deserves to be called 'dad' I perfer BSD- Biological Sperm Donor..but my parents were married when they has me.
2007-02-19 05:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in a culture where hitting your child is the best way to discipline your child. My father was a disciplinarian and if we did something wrong he would beat us. We never saw it as something bad since we always felt that it was our fault. I had experienced being lashed by a belt , slapped and verbally abused as well as my sisters. We feared our father yet we still love him.
2007-02-16 22:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was very fortunate to have a very loving and supportive dad and mom. However my children have not been that lucky. They have tried talking to there dad about it but he pays no attention to what they say. I am sorry you are going thru it. Just remember you are better than what he says you are... Good Luck
2007-02-16 22:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't but that is soooo sad. Sounds like your dad has a mental problem, on drugs or is really stressed out.
Good luck. Pops
2007-02-16 22:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Pops 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he shouldnt hurt u or have cursed or wished u were a different person u should get help so u wont seriously get hurt no1 would want that
2007-02-16 22:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by tiffanyandchibi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes my father left me and my mom when i was 4 and he was never there was i was born so i hurt emotionally
2007-02-16 22:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by (*~*_Grave_Robber_*~*) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my stepdad who was like my dad used to beat me and yell at me and hurt me but my memory were blanked out till recently, speak out please i dont want this to happen to you its horrible. x
2007-02-16 22:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by cutieloz2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl how old r u just email me at honilla@yahoo.com
2007-02-16 22:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ginger M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋