Should I break the relationship?
2007-02-16 14:46:48 · 30 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O.K. I really hope that you are not doing this to be funny or anything but, seriously. WHAT DO YOU THINK? Hell Yeah you should break off the relationship. He's a bastard if he hits you and you should not take that ****!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 14:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone that answered this question is dead right. Leave now. Leave fast. Tell someone... even if it's not to bust him. Tell someone who can help you. A man that hits will always be a man that hits. A boy that hits grows up to be a man that hits. Leave in every sense that that word means. Leave the relationship and put as much physical and emotional distance between you and him as humanly possible. And, most importantly, do it now. There is NO excuse for that behavior. It's not misplaced love. It's not "not his fault" because he had a bad childhood. It's not anything that makes it sound like something that he's not in control of. Him hitting you is his decision and you need to get out now. Period. Stay safe and good luck.
2007-02-16 14:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "little tough time" you are having is with your own brain. Get some helpful therapy and counseling. You are most likely already into an abuse cycle that, if not changed IMMEDIATELY, will continue throughout your life.
Stop seeing and speaking to him until you talk with a professional and that counselor can guide you through the breakup. Otherwise you most likely will be stalked in one way or another, and most likely be taken in by this person again.
You may find that you are manipulating your partner into these actions against yourself, as well; but that's not as likely. Abuse can be a two way street, and often two abusers find each other, and enjoy, in some sick way, a live of misery and martyrdom.
2007-02-16 14:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is hitting you then you need to get away from him now! He will not change and the hitting will only get worse. Trust me you do not want to attempt to have a life with someone like that. Lose the loser!
2007-02-16 14:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by meaty_okra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI FIRST THAT IS NOT A LITTLE TOUGH TIME TRUST ME I BEEN THOUGH WHAT YOU ARE AND THAT IS JUST THE START IF YOU STAY WITH HIM.NO ONE DESEVERS TO BE HIT NO MATTER WHAT HE MIGHT SAY HE IS SO SORRY AND CRYS AND SAY HE WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN BUT IT IS LIES FOR AWHILE HE WILL STOP THEN WHEN YOU LEAST THINK HE DOSE IT AGAIN BUT THIS TIME WORSE.PLEASE THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU SHOULD DO FOR SOME THING HAPPENS IT MIGHT BE HARD TO LEAVE HIM BUT YOU CAN DO IT.PLEASE THINK ABOUT WHAT ELSE CAN HAPPEN BEFORE IT IS TO LATE.
2007-02-16 15:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by DOLORES0369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes yes yes!!!!! Why would you stay in a relationship like that? And please don't say because you love him. That is not love! Find someone else, because if you don't this is what your life will be like. Do you want a man who is mean, yells and hits you all the time?
2007-02-16 14:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he beats you leave him immediately and go to the cops. !!!! What if he becomes so enraged he comes home yells and beats you almost to death? Talk to the cops and have them make reports so they have it on file... He's never gonna change no matter how much he says he will.
I knew a girl who's boyfriend beat her, chocked her and cheating on her..one day she was beating so badly she couldn't move for about 3 days. He even broke her arm.
2007-02-16 15:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rarely yell unless we've both been angrily fighting for several hours, and I never hit.
If you stay with him, you will make me feel guilty as if I myself had hit you, because you chose a man like him over a man like me!
2007-02-16 14:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! You should NEVER be physically abused by a boyfriend. This question is absolutely amazing. If he hits you, thats it, relationship over. Period. There are no excuses for this behavior.
2007-02-16 14:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are being abused from this person you think would be your future lifetime partner. its not worth to be covered in bruises and abrasions for this relationship, you might think that you are caring and can help your boyfriend change, but when will the abuse stop? think over whether its worth to stay by him. but what i feel is your boyfriend isn't someone you can depend on when both of you are in trouble, think over this.
2007-02-16 14:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋