what do u do when u have a friend that likes the same boy u do! i mean i really like this boy ............... but so does my friend, but she has dated him before and dumped him!!! what do i do?!~?!?!
2007-02-16 14:36:51 · 11 answers · asked by lexi c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him choose. Flirt with him and what not but the ultimate decision is after him. If he's a good guy, he'll pick you and if not, forget the looser. It isn't worth it.
2007-02-16 14:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by khrycho17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you like the same boy and ask her if it's okay for you guys to have a fair chance at getting the boy. My friends and I always like the same guy and we tell each other and it all works out without any bitter arguments or fights.
2007-02-16 22:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by marshimaro1993 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several things. Does the boy like you? If you don't know then maybe you should find out. If your friend is real keen on him then why did she dump him? If you don't know find out. If he really likes you & you like him maybe you could speak to your friend about your feelings & let her know that you don't want to step on anyones territory but....... If you want to stay friends with this girl then either don't go out with her ex or be honest & please make sure he's not going out with you to make your friend jealous. Also be careful of your friend because she could tell you a pile of lies just so you won't go out with him. Girls can be real bitches so be careful. Or, if she is a true friend it shouldn't bother her if you do or don't go out with him. Good Luck!
2007-02-17 03:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Vera K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. A boy isn't worth losing a friend over.
2007-02-16 22:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she "likes" him so much, why did she dump him? As a general rule, I would stay away from a friend's exs.
2007-02-16 22:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a question 4u:which 1 do u care more?
frenship or love?frenship could last 4ever,n do u think dis guy is gonna love u back,n wil walk wit u til de end???
come on,think over it!
sometimes,v dont actually love sm1,v jus admire/like him!
n de feeling fades as time goes by...
2007-02-16 22:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by beckham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. You will have to choose between you'r friend and the guy.
Guy's come and go.
But good friends are hard to find.
2007-02-16 22:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh, well, since she already had the chance, it's your turn girl. Talk to her and tell her since she already dated him, let yourself have a chance.
2007-02-16 22:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by shika_yume 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about ur friends if hes free hey what can they say only"he was free"
2007-02-16 22:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by 619*Monkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she dumped him so its over..its ur turn..why you afraid.??.talk to that guy..nothings wrong with it..
2007-02-16 22:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by daphne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋