Ok well, lately (the past few days) my boyfriend has been acting strange around me. He deserts me after school and he doesn't give me hugs and I don't know what to do. Half of me wants to dump him but the other half wants me to stay with him. I have been with him for four months and all my friends say we are the perfect couple and I agree but I just am not sure. So please help me!!!!! I feel like crying!!!!! Thanx!
2007-02-16 14:31:47 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him. He may have some personal problems that he hasn't mentioned and you are thinking it has something to do with you when it may not at all. Talk to him and if everything's fine with him and he's just being horrible then break up and make room for a cool new boyfriend who wants to hug and hang out with you.
2007-02-16 14:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then you need to send your man a note before school is out so you can let him know that he is neglecting your needs. if he doesnt show up after school like you request...time to let go. i know four months seems like a long time for a relationship for you but it really isnt and if you gotta let go just let that be an experience to learn from. of course it will hurt, but its life,honey. we all go through it. go ahead and cry if you need to. it seems that you need to let him go cause he hasnt made attempts on his own to let you know whats going on. perfect couple or not you dont deserve that treatment. your in the relationship, not your friends.
2007-02-16 22:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself not so available. Make him be the one wondering what your up to. Don't be all pouty face when he doesn't come by to see you, act like you don't care. If he takes off so be it, find someone else, at least you'll feel better knowing you weren't just waiting around for him to dump you.
2007-02-16 22:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously very young. You need to learn that in a relationship, your partner will have good days and bad days. Sometimes people have a bad week, and they feel down. If you really like him, maybe you could try and talk to him to make him feel better or ask him what's bothering him.
2007-02-16 22:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ben H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him first.
Maybe he's stressed about something or maybe he feels differently for some reason.
Jumping to conclusions and asking a bunch of strangers for advice isn't exactly the best choice for this, I hate to say.
Good luck.
2007-02-16 22:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by interlude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try talking to him. I wouldn't dump him until I find out whats going on. It sounds like he is upset about something. I wouldn't do anything until I talked with him.
2007-02-16 22:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by mandiwitzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cry hes not worth it he is starting to show the sings that he is cheating on u just dump him and u will feel much better
2007-02-16 22:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by 619*Monkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM a grown *** man and i think you should dump him cuz boys are usually out for one thing so my advice is to break up w/ him and find other guys that seem more interested in you. its all good..... cuz theres alot of fish in the sea!!!
2007-02-16 22:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by DaddyDevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes just cry if you feel like it I think
I often wish I could cry and can't
maybe a good first step toward working through past things and starting new ones, whatevr they are or might be
2007-02-16 22:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by k eric b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out why. If he isn't willing to communicate with you then don't stress youself out worrying about things, move on from him.
2007-02-16 22:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋