I've been dating this musician/artist for about 6 months, and at first i really thought i was his rebound because a year ago his ex-girfriend of 6 years broke his heart. We spend holidays together and he tells me he cares about me, yet for a while he seemed really confused as to whether he wanted a relationship with me (we're 8 years apart). I really care for him, but he's been really hurt before and i'm scared to get hurt too. On valentine's day, he said some things that made me feel like he's finally ready to get serious, but I'm scared to ask because every time i try to talk about anything of the sort he changes the subject. I would just let things flow, but i feel that i need to know now before I get too attached and get hurt. I've met all his friends, and although his life seems a little out of whack (he's in debt, smokes too much pot), while my life is just beginning to blossom, I really like him and want to know how to ask him how he thinks we can make this work.
2007-02-16 14:29:13 · 4 answers · asked by Sunflower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-16 14:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him straight up wats going on dont let him change the subject.
tell him he is not acting really serious like he said.tell him he needs 2 get his act TOGETHER. i know u might get hurt but at least ur making him feel better.
by from christina
2007-02-16 22:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ginger M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if you have too ask where the relationship is going you are wasting your time you should know where it is going by now
2007-02-16 22:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by twilla l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and pour your heart out.
2007-02-16 22:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by JR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋