My boyfriend and I have been talking about Marriage and kids a lot lately, and our Valentines day has been pushed back a few weeks. He has left to do training with the Canadian Reserves. and the more we talk about everything, the more I want it. But I feel as though my hopes are soaring so high that if he comes back and doesn't purpose I am going to be a wreck... I am scared of what will Happen, If I am this concerned about it all, maybe it shouldn't happen, or maybe i am just over thinking all of this. We have been together for 1 year and 8 months. we've been living together for the past 6 months. and I love him so much, I can not imagine my life without him, and he has told me the same. What am I to do?
2007-02-16 13:49:19 · 11 answers · asked by Zig 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
just take a deep breath, and try not to think about it, don't get your hopes up, because if hes not ready to propose yet, you don't want to be so dissapointed it ruins your time together, When he is ready to do it he will, just calm down and let it happen naturally so it is more of a surprise
2007-02-16 13:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My friend proposed to her then boyfriend. She got a card that said something about spending the rest of their lives together, told him she wanted to be with him forever, and asked him to marry her. He said yes, they had a beautiful wedding on a beach, and are happy as can be!!
If you don't want to be the one to ask, then just try to be patient and enjoy your relationship for what it is. You are overthinking it, and diminishing the joy you experience just from having him in your life. Try not to stress out, and just be the person he knows and loves. Everything happens for a reason.
2007-02-16 15:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, take a DEEP breath! :)
If you are nearly panicking at the thought he might be proposing and you might be getting your hopes up too high... you are. I've been there.
You need to take a step back, compose yourself if you can, and just let him take the next step. Try, if you can, to contain yourself until he gets back and either makes his move (with a sparkly bauble!), or he gets back and runs to your open arms empty handed.
Either way, it sounds like you know he absolutely loves you heart and soul, and you, him. Life should be more about the love, and less about the ring. ;)
Good luck!
2007-02-16 13:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by theromanesquegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you feel about having a unique memory?
Why don't you propose to him? Why does it always have to be the guy doing the proposing? My hubby and I beforehand always talked about getting married (a sign we were ready), but didn't make it official till he asked me.
Go for the gusto. YOU ask him!!! You can have fun with this! Good luck and if you decide to do it, let me know, please!!! I wish you the best and I'm rootin' for ya!! :o)
2007-02-16 15:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he WILL propose to you eventually. He loves you the same way you love him. YES you are over thinking it way too much. He will propose when the time is right. Just be patient....
2007-02-16 16:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a little patience and positive, you and him already consider committed so pray for the best answer from him. I'll trust he will marry you and have alot of kids. Good luck !
2007-02-16 13:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to guess if he'll propose or not and relax!!!
if you've already talked about marriage, what's the rush!?
if he proposes next week or next month, it sounds like you two will be happy together.
2007-02-16 15:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by jennyvee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and breathe! If it's going to happen it will if not then it wont! Chill and hope for the best!
2007-02-16 14:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...Just relax...I know that sounds easy ...huh? But honestly, worrying about it, isn't going to make it happen any faster and is just causing you discomfort...so yes, relax and take a deep breath!
2007-02-16 13:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel. Or propose to him yourself.
2007-02-16 13:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by Larry 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋