Okay so I'm in middle school. I am an American Muslim and I have been raised to be friends with al types of religions. I have Christian, Hindu, Buhddist, & Jewish friends. I am always nice to everyone becuase I dont knoe...thats how i am!
So this one girl at school is always rude to me. She is a very religious Christian. I really dont care what relgion someone is I judge people based on their personality. This girl is always veryy veryy rude to me. At times I think it is because I am Muslim. My friends have cross necklaces, I dont say anything! Its none of my business to tlak about religion. i am not supposed to and I dont!
This girl in my class flirts alot with other boys while she has a boyfriend. I really dont say anything to her but I think its wrong because she tells her boyfriend she loves him.
Whenever I try to be nice or smeet to this girl she always acts rude toward me.
I DO NOT BELiEVE iN ENEMiES, just so you people knoe.
I DONT HATE THiS GirL...
i just dislike her.
2007-02-16 13:39:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
She seems like a nice girl to me.
But whatever I do she just dosent like me.
And at times she shows off in front of me like shes wayyy better than me. So of ocurse I get mad! My friends and I dont have any competition with each other. She has this one girl sit next to her who is my friend and her friend. Today she asked me in front of her friend if I liked her friend (The one who im talking about here) and i said of course...i dont lovee her like thatt..or like herr like thatt...but i dont hate her and i never will!
2007-02-16 13:42:03 · update #1
Yeah, I think that is really sad. However, try not to think of it in terms of religion. Try to think of it in terms of the fact that we are all imperfect. I think that no matter what your religion, not loving others is the saddest state to be in...also the loneliest. It's sad that so many people are that way...and it certainly does not fit with Christian teachings. I hope that she changes her attitude as she gets older, and I hope that you keep your attitude of tolerance and kindness toward others.
2007-02-16 13:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by arcanefairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Christians like her are sometimes very dependent on their religion. I am a Christian too. She dislikes you because you are a Muslim. I have Muslim friends and they don't think anything of my religion. I don't think that this girl is a Christian if she acts like that toward you. Being a Christian has a lot of things that you can't do that don't please God. I hope that maybe you become a Christian so that you will go to Heaven and be with God someday when you die. This girl is expectantly not saved as a Christian, or else she wouldn't be smooching with her boyfriend. When she is rude to her, you can speak her language, the Christian language, even if she is a Christian or not. Say, I thought the Bible said that the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. (you don't have to say all that - just a little bit) I don't see any of that in you, so back off, you hypocrite. After that, I'd bet that you'll never hear a word out of her again. God bless you and I hope it works out!
2007-02-16 13:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really have to just ignore this girl. There will always be people in this world who try to make others feel less of a person. They are so unhappy with themselves, they have make everyone around feel like a lesser person. You have the right idea, be a friend of every religion. You do not have to agree with every religion, but, it is the right of everyone on earth, to belong to whatever religion they want to. I know that it is hard to realize, but, in 5 years, you won't even remember this girl. She will spend the rest of her young life, being unhappy, sad, and wondering why others don't care for her, and wondering where her friends are. You, on the other hand, will blossom into a fine young lady, who knows what friends are!!!!!
2007-02-16 14:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by ticker10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just being a typical middle school brat. Ignore her antics. It sounds like you are above that silliness. I agree its best if you don't talk about religion at school or with your friends who are different religions. Talk about clothes, music, boys or whatever and leave the heavy stuff for later in life.
My opinion is that there aren't any Christian kids, Muslim, Hindu,or any religion. There are kids with religious parents, but kids aren't old enough to make that decision. No one considers a kid to be a republican or democrat, and there is a reason why people can't vote until the age of 18.
By the way, don't let her bully you. If she asks if you like her friend, look at the friend and ask if *she* wants to know if you like her or not. If she says yes, ask her why she didn't ask you herself. If she says no, look at the girl who asked and laugh, and tell her to stop minding other peoples business.
2007-02-16 13:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by UFO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jesus said, "By their fruits you will know them." Sounds like this so called Christian girl is not really a Christian after all or she would not be mean to you but very nice and loving. I have found it is best just to ignore this kind of person and don't acknowledge her taunts or she will just do it more. Dont' let her know it bothers you as that is what she is after. If you do not react as she wants you to and expects you to, she will get tired of it and move on and maybe even come to be friends with you. Give it a try.
2007-02-16 13:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by ramall1to 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I'm a christian. So I know there are some VERY close minded christians out there and some people are taught not to be friends with people who are out side of their religion. I think it is wrong because there are some great people out there and you miss out knowing some great people.
Also talk is cheap just because she says she's a christian doesn't mean squat. To me she isn't showing Jesus' love. You've done your part being nice to her. Don't worry about it. So good for you for being nice!
2007-02-16 13:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't be very Christian if she's flirting with other boys when she's got a boyfriend. She's way too young to be dating anyway since you're in middle school. That being said, she shouldn't be rude to you cause you're Muslim. I have a Hindu boss and he respects my religious beliefs and I respect his, although I don't understand them. His kids go to a Christian church and its been a joy watching them grow and learn about Jesus. Anyhoo, I think your best bet is to ignore her, she sounds very immature and insecure if you ask me. She may be jealous of you especially if she feels your smarter than her, or are more popular. Teenage girls can be incredibly cruel to one another. Kill her with kindness, she won't know how to react. Good luck dear.
2007-02-16 13:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by the pink baker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying, "you can please some of the people some of the time but you can't please all of the people all the time". It certainly applies here.
Whatever this girl feels, it has nothing to do with who you are or what kind of person you are. Let it go. You don't need to be mean, just don't initiate a conversation with her. You don't have to tolerate someone throwing your kindness back in your face.
It sounds to me like she is missing a chance to have a very good friend, and that is her choice and her loss.
2007-02-16 13:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by kiera70 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with not getting along with someone else. I know it would be ideal for everyone to hold hands and be friends, but that will never happen. As long as you two respect each other and the fact that you have different views, it is fine. She will not be the first nor the last person you dislike.
2007-02-16 13:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by KS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't associate with her. Ignore it. She hates you because everyone loves you. You can't make the world loves you. It's impossible. Once you're loved, hatred's gotta go along with it & that's just how life is. if you pay attention to little things like this, you'll drive yourself crazy. nothing is perfect & no one is either. everything's gotta be balanced you know an upside & a downside. if your life goes smooth from here on till the end, wouldn't it be boring?
you don't know what you have until it's gone - remember that
2007-02-16 13:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋