Just recently my boyfriend broke up with me. I really loved him with all my heart. He left me for another girl. Me and my ex boyfriend hung out tonight, as friends, and now I am back home and I am so upset and hurt. I don't want anyone else, I want him and him only. I know there are lots of other guys out there, but it seems like there is nobody else out there for me. What is wrong with me? Why won't anyone love me? I was abandoned by my parents when I was 13, so I have major problems when it comes to feeling like anyone cares for me, and I think that is part of the reason I am so upset about my ex boyfriend. It has even gotten to the point of attempting suicide. What can I do to feel better? Please no snotty replys, I am already upset enough and just want someone to give me some advice. Thanks
2007-02-16 13:35:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The 1st thing to remember is that you do deserve to be happy, and you are important. Maybe now isn't the time for you and him, but maybe it will come back around in the future. You sound like a wonderful person, who just needs to find something to make you happy, it dosen't have to be a man. You can be happy without a man. One of the most attractive attributes that a woman can have is confidence. Just be happy for you and see what happens. If you ever need someone to talk to drop me a line at booman756@yahoo.com.
2007-02-16 14:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by booman756 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Everything will be okay! It usually takes you twice the amount of time to get over a boyfriend after you break up. Try to have fun with some of your girlfriends! Take a shopping day, spa day, or just hang out and watch some chick flicks! --it helps! Do not try to attempt suicide. Every person has a point to live. Someone loves you and they would really miss you. It will all turn out all right. Sometimes traumatic childhood events can lead to problems. Try to remember, someone cares for you! I know that sometimes it feels like nobody loves you and that you have no reason to live anymore, but you do. Don't listen to your ex and try to go out and have some fun. You also may want to talk to someone! If you need someone to talk to, e-mail me. But try to talk to a doctor or a friend. My e-mail is adviceandmore513@yahoo.com. I hope this helps! -Rayna F.
2007-02-16 21:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A break up is really hard especially when you love someone. Don't expect the hurt to go away overnight. Just take it one day at a time. Of course, it's easier said than done. But try to find something to fill your time. Also, consider talking to someone to help you through the hard times.
2007-02-16 21:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i completely understand i know how u feel the best advice i can give u is keep ya head up and be strong i know u want him and know one else maaybe he needs time to see what he really wants he will cime around sooner or later and if he wanted to hangout just as friends and yall did thenhe still has feelings for u he just dont know how to answer them but trust me when he is ready u will know
2007-02-16 21:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by L.A. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is someone out there just for you,hurting/killing yourself is not a good solution,never ever think about hurting yourself.maybe you can try going out with your girlfriends,hes not worth you hurting yourself.maybe you can try counseling,I'm sure abandonment issue's are difficult to deal with but again,never ever think about hurting yourself,,,good luck
2007-02-16 21:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by walker4907 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand but gust move on with your life.Try and go out with your Ex-b/f that you hung out with.Maybe you can date him again or one of his Friends.
2007-02-16 21:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to remember that no matter what's happened to you, you deserve to be happy. You deserve someone who isn't going to leave you. Now, go find him.
Hint: it's NOT your ex.
2007-02-16 21:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lover that makes you cry is not worth crying over.
2007-02-16 21:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by David F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋