she cheated on me and she doesnt really think its cheating at all since she didnt do any thing with the other person.but theres another part to it.......she doesnt know i know.i want to confront her but the person that told me wasnt sopposed to.and i really dont want any drama.
and before you ask yes i am a girl so please dont jugde me.i've been judged enough last year.
2007-02-16 13:20:07 · 12 answers · asked by skitteles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I am gonna go against your request and judge you to say that's hot! Sorry I am male.
OK, well usually the cheater never feels as if they have cheated when it's something that most consider small, but if you feel as though she has cheated then she has. If she can't understand that and work it out with you, you are probably better off to move on. If you just let it go, it's gonna happen again and it will just bother you more and more.
2007-02-16 13:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I am not going to judge you. Now I am not a lesbian but no matter what kind of person you are attracted to I still think cheating is wrong. Now your not sup post to know but I still think you should talk to her about it. Because it's obviously bothering you and if you don't she could do it again and you could end up getting hurt in the long run. So I would confront her. Good Luck with your decision.
2007-02-16 13:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK. I wont judge you. I'm that way to. If she cheated on you then you need to confront her!!! Dont let her get away with it!!! She may do it again! Tell her that rumors have been going around and you want the truth. Dont say anything else about it. and if she lies to you tell her you can tell that shes lying. Dont put up with that kind of crap!
2007-02-16 13:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sit her down and ask her ( R U CHEATING ON ME ). Then look her straight in her eyes and then say, ( IF U REALLY LUV ME U WILL TELL ME THE TRUTH ). If u really feel deep down in your heart that she is lying then well...........sorry 2 say but u have 2 let her go. There's MANY girls out there. I know how it feels not 2 be loved.
2007-02-16 13:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tootie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that person was telling you the truth?Could it be that she just wants to start an argument between you two for some reason?If not,,I would just tell the gf that you just know in your heart that she did.Or dump her & find someone more deserving.
2007-02-16 13:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you confront her!!! You deserve better than that. If drama is what it takes to get rid of someone who doesn't really care about you the way you care for them, then do it!! No one should have to put up with someone else's sh*t, be unhappy and miserable. I hope that' s not what you want for yourself.
2007-02-16 13:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last year? What anout for the Double "O" Seven? No one cares. It seems to me that by you bringing this up you are looking for the drama in the new year. Sorry take your mama drama (almost literally) elsewhere.
2007-02-16 13:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by lioneltherat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her *** and thank the female who told you. If she told the truth, you should be happy she told you and not disrespect her by letting your girl know that you know......OR if you really want your girl to know that you know then convince your friend to try to convince your girl to tell u that she cheated...I am just curious as to what she "did"...kiss? well that is cheating...touching?...that can be cheating too.....girl, I would NOT take any of that from my gf'z...good luck hun
2007-02-16 13:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would confront her, it's hard enough trying to make relationships work, but it's even harder when your not completely honest with them. Good luck. :)
2007-02-16 13:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by Marti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive and forget, if she is worth it for you. live too short
2007-02-16 13:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋