We've been dating for about 3 months. He calls it a casual r/ship. He acts like he's really into me though in ways. Like driving 1 1/2 hours to come to my house, kissing my face gently after doing it, cuddling for hours, wanting to sleep over, kissing even after we finish doing it. But after 3 months I want to take it to the next level. We aren't even technically in a r/ship according to him, like his myspace page still says single. And he doesn't call me to talk or anything, we just email. What do you think? Is he into me and takes it slow? Should I move on? Please help! Thanks!!!!
2007-02-16 13:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's definatly not looking for a relationship, and as long as you keep going along with the way he wants things to go, it won't change. If you want things to change you have to change them yourself. Don't get together with him, if he makes you feel like abooty call, unless that is all you want yoo.
2007-02-16 13:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Katie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you feel like a booty call...see how he reacts
Stop putting out for awhile and see if he still visits. Do you always sleep with him when he comes over? If yes, your a booty call. I am guessing he considers a casual relationship friends with benefits...which doesn't sound like what you want.
2007-02-16 13:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being able to get you in bed in three months is taking it slow then, that's your first problem. Especially if he's able to get it thru emailing you!!!Dam* girl. Yeah, he's playing you. It seems as if he lives in another city to drive so far to get to you and you only communicate thru email. Is this some cyber sh*t?
2007-02-16 13:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it feels like a booty call, that's what it is. Follow your instincts.
2007-02-16 13:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by special m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you started out wrong,some men have no intention's of starting a relationship backwards,,,,,sleep with you now then get to know you later,cut him off for a while and see what happens,,,,good luck
2007-02-16 13:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by walker4907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booty call. Ur so easy
2007-02-16 13:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well in some ways yes but in some ways no but ask him what he wants to do
2007-02-16 13:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a bootycall. You may be overweight, and you fall into the 'moped rule'. Enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-02-16 13:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by theangel1025 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋