I've told all my friends that I'm over him... but I'm not. Here's how it goes:
I've liked him for a year. He's so cute and smart and funny and great. We're in college, and he doesn't drink or go to parties, just like me. He's a good guy. There aren't any of them anymore. I don't know where I'll find another.
So I thought he was too good for me and I didn't talk to him much, but my one friend found out and decided to tell him that I liked him so that I'd have a chance. I didn't know she told him, so when he started to pay more attention to me, I just got nervous. Then my other friend told me what she did, and I was so mad and I felt so vulnerable that I just shut him out. I didn't think that there was any way that he'd be into me. So I lost any "chance" that I had. And now he has a girlfriend.
I've tried so hard to get over him, but I can't. I don't know what is wrong with me. I feel horrible. I am shy and quiet, and there aren't many boys who would go for a girl like me. Help!
2007-02-16 13:07:28 · 9 answers · asked by Skyla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im also very shy and quiet. but this valentines i finally got the guts to give her something. The thing is always look to the bright side of things. try to win him back. ABSOLUTLY DO NOT FLIRT WITH HIM IN FRONT OF HIS GIRLFRIEND. jusat casulay talk about what he likes. ask him to go to a party as your date or something if he likes parties. dress nice and get a gift for him. just be yourself and im sure he will like u someday. but i think u should prepare for rejection just in case...not that u will get rejected. just act natural. if ur nice, im sure he will like u. Best Of Luck. i hope u can win him back
2007-02-16 13:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had a similar problem, but I'm also not in college. lol. If shutting him out was what you had to do, then that's what you had to do. And the only way to get over a guy, is to try and like another one or tell that guy how you feel. Maybe the only reason he has that girlfriend is that he is trying to do the same thing that you are doing and get over you. If you try and talk to him, I'm sure it would be fine, because talking always helps.
2007-02-16 21:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shelby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, why didnt you go for him, theres only some chances in life and when they cross ur path take them. You know your not going to get over himyou have to wait and another chance will come
2007-02-16 21:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine you have a boyfriend and there's a gir crushing on him and you know about it and he entertains her. how would you feel? if you don't like the feeling and wouldn't want to lose your man to another girl when you do find the guy for yourself, don't pursue this guy. someone will get hurt at the end of the day
2007-02-16 21:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very shy. but alot of guys like that. just be his friend. my advice don't try to take him from the other girl remimber KARMA!!!
2007-02-16 21:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girlfriend, don't mess with him right now. wait until he is a single guy again before you go flirting with him.
2007-02-16 21:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes taken....get over it or wait till hes single. dont mess up other peoples lives
2007-02-16 21:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST LET ME TELL YOU THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WIT YOU IT'S THESE SORRY BOY'S. SINCE YOU LIKE GO FOR HIM HE MIGHT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND TODAY, BUT HE MIGHT NOT HAVE ONE TOMORROW.
2007-02-16 21:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Monica J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just gonna have to wait until he breaks up with her
2007-02-16 21:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by jack s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋