... to get a genuine guy. I try to be myself but i end up getting these fake cocky guys that want me for my body. please help!
2007-02-16 13:02:00 · 7 answers · asked by FlameGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try listening before you look....
2007-02-16 13:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by hedgefundinvesting@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to not be looking for love to find it. In other words, the guy that is going to be the best person for you, is going to be a really good friend first. If you kind of make it known that he wont be able to touch your body and he stays and builds a true friendship with you, then you know he loves you for you and not just your body. Then you can decide if he is right for you and if you want to take the relationship to the next level...
2007-02-16 13:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by tessybell83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try surveying yourself on some proven sites where you can get your personality profile for free and see what type of man you really need.
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(1) I like www.eharmony.com (initial profile free)
It is a long analysis but then you'll know what you really want.
(2)Try match.com .. (initial analysis is free, you have to pay to write email) this one does a different type analysis changing the world of online personals, dating and relationships.
(3) Webdate I have used and It is free to both men and women.
(4) Try - www.mate1.com - it is ok.. The women chat free, men have to pay a lot..So maybe they are more serious... Profiles are detailed yet simple.
(5). Chemistry.com is an online dating site for singles who are actively seeking long-term relationships. There is a free personality test and guided communication process will get you face-to-face with your most compatible matches.
(6) Take time to make a list of the attributes and characteristics you want in a mate. do you want long tern or casual. What really matter yo you.
(7). Be careful everyone you date is a potential "baby's father," think of his features and mental condition. You may not be able to give you child riches, but you contraol their look and intellligence by who you mate with. I have beautiful smart children. I know I chose well.
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And that’s what really matters, who are seeking serious relationships or even marriage with. The guided communication and dating process picks up where personal mis-matches leave off. Those web sites are designed to help you quickly get to know who you match and want to date. And the rest, well, it’s up to you.
Just some things to think on.. One last thing; If you continue to date looser, look at yourself and you relationship with your father, brothers and others that you ahve interacted with in the past. the past really does affect you choices (sub-consciously).
Take another street, Go out on a limb and try someone totally differnt that your past boyfriends. Learn more and do better. Good Luck!
2007-02-16 13:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by a_sojourner_withyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kgirl:
So be yourself and never negotiate what it is you are looking for in a person. Its trial and error and yes; I understand one needs to dig deep these days. Also, you may want to consider something new in the way of places to meet the person of your dream re. library, sport centers, art museums and alike. Now would be the time to enhance what you could bring to a relationship and by doing so I believe the shallow fake guys you have mentioned would know better than to compete.
Best to ya,
2007-02-16 13:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that cause you are only attracted to bad boy ?? . In the end you can only be yourself...don't try to be fake. ( I know you said you try to be yourself) But don't try...do it !!! And stop going to bars and clubs (well not all together) but try to meet people in gyms, the park, cafe's , coffee shops, bookstores...look for guys everywhere... I'm a genuine guy but I'm taken now. But try Myspace it worked for me.Thats where she found me.
2007-02-16 13:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think those kind of guys are pretty easy to spot, so try to avoid those types and see if u might meet the person u want.
2007-02-16 13:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jay B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let the guys know that, that isnt what you are looking for.
2007-02-16 13:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋