2007-02-16 13:01:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do nothing..keep your knickers on u hussy.
2007-02-23 21:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wise up for one thing. Hey, the eye is never satisfied and there is always something out there to tempt each of us to do wrong. If you and he ran off together, within a year, you would find someone else who would at least temp you strongly.
I bet that you would like to eat ten pies sometimes too, but you know that you shouldnt and that it would be bad for you and make you fat. Same things apply here. LOL.
Realize that you made a vow to God, the other person and yourself and that each of those three parties have an expectation and right to have all three fulfill their part. Frankly, the rest of us have an expectation or right to have you do so too. If you dont, then you have weakened our society and our moral fiber even more then it is already. Sound silly to you? Hey, it was when we started accepting so many things as just a choice or a right that we started getting so much more of what we now have, to include failed marriages and cheating. And just look at how much worse off we are today.
Lastly, if you really have to ask what you should do, you need a serious case of morals, as God defines them, not as most in the world would.
2007-02-16 13:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should complete your business and go home. You will run into guys all the time that will peek your interest but nothing should come of it. You have a husband that loves you . If the guy trys to make something of this crush just remind him that you are married and true and that you don't think his fiancee would appreciate him being untrue .
2007-02-24 12:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows it, you already went too far. You don't stop having crushes when you get married, but it's your obligation to not act on them AT ALL. Remember that affairs don't start in the bedroom, they start over dinner. Or coffee. What should you do? Avoid him like the plague. Convince yourself that he'll only use you to cheat on his fiancee. And if you think he's too wonderful a person to do something rotten like that, then you haven't got a chance and are setting yourself up to look like a fool. In the process, you'll give your husband something to look down on. Is that really what you want out of life?
2007-02-16 13:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what you want..
It is ok to have a crush on someone.. every does.. but you have to think long and hard if you want to have a healthy marriage. If yes, light flirting and having a crush should be your limit. If you feel you don't want to be married.. take care of that before doing anymore.
It's your call... I wish you the best of LUCK!
2007-02-16 13:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Mattie,
You are treading on thin ice! If you have a crush on this man remember that crushes do not last very long. Don't make a mistake that you will regret later.
2007-02-16 13:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ugochinyere 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should forget this engaged man, the reason?
You are going to fall into the trap. In other side, you have to Analise you relation with your husband, because it seems that you are losting important things in your private relations, attentions, loving phrases, etc...
2007-02-16 13:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by princessita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you just have to ask yourself if this guy means more to you than your husband. if he feels the same way you do and he is willing to give up his fiancee for you. then do what you want. however, i believe you both should move on and continue on your separate ways. you both made a promise to certain people before this trip, and you need to honor those promises.
2007-02-16 13:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i kno u may like this guy but im sry to say u hafta get over him if u want to stay faithful with ur husband. im sry but thats how it is unless u wanna get divorced or somethin ok then l8r bye!
2007-02-24 09:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Erikatothextreme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it - neither of you are interested in being with each right ? if you are 2 consulting adults who can handle a strictly sexual encounter together - then just be discrete about it - may i be so bold as to say that the sex would probably be out of this world.
p.s. if he backs out, you could always try me :)
2007-02-16 13:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Looking_2_Taste_U 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sign up today ,to ask this stupid question,when you know the answer.
quit going on business trip's ,you not to be trusted .
a word of advice ,since you a new member ,we don't take to kind to cheater's .
2007-02-16 13:09:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋