Will it ever feel ok?
2007-02-16 12:50:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he s the love of your life you may never get over it, but you can sure try. It may take a long time but it will eventually happen but only if you learn to accept the fact that you are not together anymore. That will be the hardest of all but you may have to learn to love him from a far or just don't love at all. I am so sorry about that, but you can learn to move on with a lot of support from friends.... You will feel better as time goes by but it will not happen over night.
2007-02-16 12:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I new a girl in highschool and I thought she was the love of my life. I still think about her from time to time. I wonder what she might be thinking or up to. Unfortunately, we were not able to stay together.
I think we need to see beyond these relationships on the material plane. Even when our love becomes our spouse, the relationship must still meet an end at least due to death.
The most we can do is develop relationships on a more eternal platform. We can do this with someone of the opposite gender, but it doesn't have to be someone of the opposite gender. A relationship that is more on the eternal platform might have a better chance of carrying through into the next life.
2007-02-16 21:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by devotionalservice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes you can't and you keep holding on to the past and wishing it was real. I did this for 2+ years cause this girl I loved (and thought she was the love of my life ) .Never loved me back and told me she didn't care. I had to stop all contact and I was buried in depression for them two years and couldn't move on even when I tried my hardest.
Then at the end of last month outta know where, i met someone on Myspace ( Well she met me) and we are in love. So it may never feel ok until you find a person that is better for you then ther pervious person. I still love the girl that broke my heart...But not the way I do with my current GF. Sometimes you just gotta putthe past in the past and leave it there...I know its hard as hell but you have to for the shake of your own health.
If you need to talk you can contact me.
2007-02-16 21:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a big healer/ little meditation/pass time with friends/family . It happens in life/ accept the reality. One has to struggly for existance take it supottingly. These days love means nothing people change/ may be get a better guy/ still if r not comfortable/confused. u can always discuss with someone or even can write to me .. May be i give u some more suggestion loking to ur problem . God bless u.
2007-02-16 21:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it will, but it takes time. Get involved in things that will take your mind off of him. Keep a positive attitude about yourself. Don't keep thinking that this is the only person you will ever love. Someday, the right person for you might come along, and he will fill the empty space in your heart. In the meantime, be as content as you can with being by yourself. Learn to value your private time. My love died almost 8 yrs. ago. I still miss him, but i now have a beautiful calico cat that is like a daughter to me and she makes me very happy. i am content and happy. you will be too.
2007-02-16 21:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by catgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it will. It is definitely hard at first... but when the right one comes in to your life, you will realize how special you really are. I know it is difficult right now... but its amazing when that person who completes you fully actually enters your life. You will realize what a loser the previous man was... he didn't treat you the way you should have been treated... etc... trust me, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.
2007-02-16 20:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was the love of your life, you'd be together. It just feels that way now because your emotions are running high. Give yourself time to move beyond this relationship.
2007-02-16 20:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, we all do it only depend on how long. Time wil tell everything. Just try not to think about it . Hang out with ur friend enjoy life!
2007-02-16 21:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by just a radom girl in this earth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do grieve and alot more if it was someone we really loved alot. it does take time, it isn't something that happens over night. it is more like a process, and does take time. best to get some therapy, it helps, especially spiritual therapy.
2007-02-16 21:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize that you were involved in a One-way Romance. and that you need to wait until you can find that two-way Connection. Don't give yourself, until you know it's gonna be returned. Luck!
2007-02-16 20:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋